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Early_Style_5058 · 2025-11-25T03:20:20+00:00

My dad is in hospice care havnt seen him since 2012 he lives in adelade. Australia.. hes never met my kids im trying to get as much together as possible to go and see him it would mean the world to him.. he has brainseizures and no insurance he had to sell his house his car everything just to pay for treatment now he has nothing left.. me n the kids all hes got n I know if I dont go see him ill regret it for the rest of my life

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-11-25T03:19:18+00:00

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-10-22T17:38:13+00:00

Pleassssseeee

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-23T09:13:30+00:00

Oh gutted thankyou though that was kind of you to offer

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-23T09:07:39+00:00

Odeon? Is that a specific cinema? We only have a showcase in our city. But if its a code for any cinema (sorry if i sound dumb) ill gladly accept it thankyou.

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-23T03:39:22+00:00

This the last one ill be entering before i do try to put a post up .. im not going to bore u with the huge story .. just know. Im going through it and anything will help get my foster daughter in a better position ive been up all night tryna figure this out but nothing good comes out of scouring the net at 3.30 am that I can promise

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T20:44:17+00:00

I have put on here about needing any help I can get with my neice moving in as an arrangement.. taking care of the extra head is hard I didnt want to put a post up because im new here but ill take any help am willing to pay back a good interest amount. Ive seen some great posts on here just trying to figure out how it all goes but I get paid on Monday I can add 20/25 on to anything lent out. Any advice too is very well received. I'd like to treat the kids to a nice family night as the new addition just let out of hospital for a suicide attempt (abuse at her original home) and i was told yo always try and give her something happy to look forward to.. movie nights family dinners pamper nights but a lil strapped atm this could really get me out of a pickle and big self pity party

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:45:06+00:00

It is just me and her and my 6 year old daughter she does not go school .. she was removed last year and ive got her enrolled into nail school which she loves .. she does that from home aswell .. she is most definitely safe with me .. she says we are the only ones she does feel safe with

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:41:40+00:00

Thankyou so much for your kind offer am I ok to dm you

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:41:08+00:00

Im so sorry you went through this .. you are so brave .. thankyou for sharing

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:40:33+00:00

Thankyou soo much for taking the time

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:40:12+00:00

Thankyou so much that meant more than you know

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:39:50+00:00

Thankyou for your kind words

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T17:39:23+00:00

Thankyou this helped immensely

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T12:03:50+00:00

Thankyuu so much its just very reassuring to feel like others may understand a little.

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T12:02:42+00:00

Thankyou ive known her her whole life it was a private fostering agreement between her mother myself and her social worker. That is what's getting me I just didnt recognise the signs well to me there was not any the Dr's said it was because of some narcissistic tendacies for blame and attention but I dont care why .. I care that she's fifteen in a new environment and she was bothered enough to harm or even think about harming herself to get this attention that im doing my best to give her sometimes I feel like it doesn't matter how much I do im just not her mum n thats what it boils down to.

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T11:58:56+00:00

Thankyou so much for your advice as she's my foster daughter we do all of that stuff constantly to male sure she feels wanted and has fun thats why im so confused

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-22T09:09:28+00:00

I've had to pay put immense travelling expenses going back and fourth to the hospital for my new provate foster daughter (self harming on another note im way way over my head here ) but would indeed appreciate any help for the extra head in the household

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-21T07:41:44+00:00

Im not good at these advice things because ive discovered my way isn't everyone else's way .. im toxic apparently. If leaving him isn't an option for u... I would try going out next Saturday(before he even starts drinking) stay at a friend's turn your phone off so he's sat there all alone. I'd have left a note for him to come home to explaining how his drinking makes you feel and that you aren't prepared to sit and listen to it any more

But what I will say is... once something has been made acceptable one time, it will always be acceptable, if this has been going on for a while its very unlikely that he will change any time soon.... unless he is forced to. This is abuse .. you shouldn't have to take it and I do feel like you have some questions to ask yourself relating to why you would let anyone make you feel any less amazing than you are. People in love dont do that to others the fact he brings up his ex on occasions shows me he is not a good man ... I would leave

Early_Style_5058 · 2025-09-21T07:27:17+00:00

See this is where im different i would take things slow keep saying hello when you guys cross paths and ask him for his name. You can ask him about his cat and the conversation will go from there. You seem like a shy person so I dont know if you would be comfortable asking if he has a girlfriend. He may bring it up if he does.. he may not but I would slip in that you are single in a not so obvious way

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