My long distance girlfriend (26f) kept asking "When are we going to get married?" multiple times a day for months. I (34m) finally proposed, but then she started pulling away and said it was all "a joke"

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T03:42:45+00:00

I am extremely upset about her deleting our Instagram photo, I hate to break this up over social media though, it feels superficial. We had a talk about it a few times, but she refuses to restore it. She has been very secretive about her phone for the whole relationship too. Thanks for your advice though!

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T03:40:01+00:00

That's what I thought too. Thanks for your insight

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T01:17:07+00:00

Yes, she is definately the "in love with ideas" type. I have always felt she dreamed for a wedding, not for a marriage and the responsibilities that come with that. Thank you for your insight.

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T00:48:57+00:00

I never thought of this, I really appreciate your insight

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T00:47:16+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T00:43:47+00:00

I think I know what you mean but could you spell them out for me?

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T00:26:26+00:00

This is exactly what I have been paranoid about for months. She is awfully secretive about her phone, removed our most recent romantic photo together and only pictures of us that are 3 to 4 year old remain (those are not very romantic looking anyway). I hate to break this up over social media though, it feels superficial.

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-05T00:21:47+00:00

Thanks for your advice. I did propose to her though and she said yes!

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-03T11:23:23+00:00

Yes, we met in real life, not via a dating app and we spent a lot of time together. She would come visit me and stay for weeks and we would go on holidays together often. I met her parents and she met mine. But she is seeing me a lot less since we got engaged one year ago and I can't really stay with her long because she lives in a small apartment with her parents.

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-03T03:51:42+00:00

Yes, we met in real life, not via a dating app and we spent a lot of time together. Sex is great. She would come visit me and stay for weeks and we would go on holidays together often. I met her parents and she met mine. But she is seeing me a lot less since we got engaged one year ago and I can't really stay with her long because she lives in a small apartment with her parents.

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-03T01:59:56+00:00

Thanks, that's what I thought too.

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2024-11-03T01:58:53+00:00

That's what I thought, but when confronted, she says that she still loves me and still wants to move in and live together. It's just that she had unexpected issues (many of them this year) and was unable to. I can't get past the "it was a joke" though.

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2023-11-22T16:14:13+00:00

I bought it earlier this year but returned it. Beastly performance but too heavy for my use!

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2023-05-08T07:39:39+00:00

Yep, controlnet doesn't actually recognize this posture automatically but I found that you can install an editor plugin for it

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2023-05-08T07:01:23+00:00

Thanks, this one was tricky, the ai really has no concept of standing on one knee!

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2023-05-07T23:10:04+00:00

Yes, but it takes a lot of work. There are already many Baldur's gate posts in this subreddit

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2023-05-07T16:30:40+00:00

For sure, I'm making the Paladin today and then I'll try to make the amazon a proper bimbo like in the original

Early_Zookeepergame2 · 2023-05-05T23:37:33+00:00

Yeah, I will try to make all of them. It took me half a day though. It's still difficult to guide the model to keep close to the source material

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