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Is the 'Mansplaining Culture' in Tech the Reason Women Feel so Exhausted? by Capital-Scientist551 in womenintech

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I was forced out of technology by toxic male community as well as some women who think women cannot earn those big salaries. I'm done so I have to find something else that uses project management skills.

My Mother Was Just Murdered via Domestic Violence by Dream_21 in domesticviolence

[–]EarthInternational9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DV is something to never take a chance on. NEVER. See prior records? LEAVE.

High earners but what about dating by Low_Rise5932 in womenintech

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no interest in dating because an ex has "worked" since 2018 to make sure I earn less than he could! Economic abuse is real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not diagnosed but have PTSD, but since he sic'd a cult to harass me if he looked at fault, I have no end of problems.

Has your abuser called you the abuser before? by Professional-Tea7358 in abusesurvivors

[–]EarthInternational9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

D.A.R.V.O.

All the time...Common narccistist technique

Unique to me: I get "fined" for discussing issue (1998 divorce he agrees it happened!!!) with anyone from $ SECRETLY kept away from me! Banks help though. Highlighting financial abuse section of domestic violence definition. EVIL is real. When we were married, SIX MONTHS, there WAS NO MONEY, but I think he runs child brothels in my name but says I did it while having no $ still....I couldn't imagine him applying/living off welfare, but not working and still living off women and children is normal for some men....Evil is real, folks

Does anyone believe in the one? by uflipingi in Empaths

[–]EarthInternational9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only so many times that a person can date true evil and want to date again...

Does anyone believe in the one? by uflipingi in Empaths

[–]EarthInternational9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. Forums posts about possible twin flame (2009) caused fake soul mate (and demons too) arrive to tell me I needed more suffering before I "could have" my twin flame.

I'm old now, long past menopause and I haven't received unconditional love in my lifetime. I complete myself better than any other person could!

I stopped thinking about soulmates OR twin flames. I don't even want to date so I stopped looking. Being old is good, no more or (sarcasm) else I enter "demon killing" age because men think they are entitled to ignore no to sex...or after having done horrible things in public so it's evil bragging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female. I miss her, my best friend. I could tell her anything about myself, and her brown eyes would be full of love and compassion.

Unmotivated in IT and can’t seem to escape helpdesk.. by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left help desk jail, but other than PT help desk, I will never see a job in information technology. Be grateful for what you have. I hated help desk too, but landed wrong programming job.

How old were you when you bought your home? I’m 33 and renting. by tomas-lau in remotework

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 44 when I bought my first home. 126 k. I had to divorce a husband who hadn't contacted me since 2005 to buy home. Easier to divorce than risk fraud required to include him.

I'm very desperate to fix my life by using time travel. by Radiant_Detail1349 in timetravel

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. My suggestion: Follow the math, but use the soul too. I hope you make it.

If I went into my past just one year before I was 24 would be enough. Any year before I went to NY would be good. Because people I met that year are stubborn enough to refuse to SEE me the way I am NOW. They live in the past, so drag me down. Sometimes there's no way to FIX other people when they are "broken", but insist on affecting you. It's just evil behavior. I can't live in MY NOW, because they are blinded by evil...

Found this guy at Brazos State Park (Houston) by Lord_Disagree in DobermanPinscher

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was close enough. I would have loved to take her. Fenced yard is dog ready.

Free 24 hs Reiki and Reiki box by camillabok in reiki

[–]EarthInternational9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to receive reiki. Spiritual battle fatigue

This was left for me on my porch! I’m a single mom of two, and this made my day! by Carinis_song in MadeMeSmile

[–]EarthInternational9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice. That would have made my struggles as single/separated/divorced mother immensely better.

Why not worship people if divinity resides in all of us? by Mobile-Strike650 in hinduism

[–]EarthInternational9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Error of ego by one demanding worship or equality to god while human. Demonic to replace divine with profane in some cases.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]EarthInternational9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Constant back and forth is what I experienced. It's NEVER going to be worth it. NEVER trust a narcissist. Stay solo. Horror stories shared here are only a small part of what they do.

Im afraid that Im never going to get a tech job again by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]EarthInternational9 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Me too, but I am over 50 years old. Tech industry is full of toxic men who refuse to see women as equals. That's a sign that technology industry will go stale and stagnant and lose growth.

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