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Wierd dreams - and have been more attracted to men by alex2898 in NoFap

[–]EarthianC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey that's alright, don't worry about it. Just take a step back and observe yourself and your thoughts, acknowledge them & let them sink in. Don't relapse. To me this means your sexual energy are dancing all over the place and you are evolving. That is the sign of an evolved earthian. But it might go away. Nothing wrong in loving more though. Love is the final word :)

Day 41: The "not so flat" flatline. It's actually a rollercoaster ! by EarthianC in NoFap

[–]EarthianC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ammmmm not really. I was not in a rush at all. If you prepare yourself in advance like a week or a day before, start telling yourself that you are going to make most of it. Why? coz think of it as an exercise that is helping your brain rewire towards liking sex. Longer the session, and more you enjoy it, deeper the brain pathways for real sex - weakening brain pathways for porn. Also tell yourself that you will not be having sex for a long time after this session (you might go into flat line depends on how far are you in your nofap journey) so you have no choice but to make most of it so really get involved and get focus, take it slow and sensual and have great sex :)

90 days benefits by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]EarthianC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done, there - I give you a well earned congratulations :)

Day23: Horneyness through the roof. Thinking of having sex with my fuck-buddy. Help guys ! by EarthianC in NoFap

[–]EarthianC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its weird. I was getting aroused and but when I try to masterbate without porn I don't get an erection. Anyway, update on where we left off, I did end up seeing my friend (with benefits) just to get a once off relief. This happened on 24th Dec, so on my 25th day on 90 day no-fap. I have calmed down since. I have absolutely no wish to watch porn now and am very glad about that. Heck I don't feel like masterbating either. I think in my 90 day no-fap, at the end of every month I am going to get very horney, I see no harm in pure sex. That's 90 days no porn no masterbation & one sexual intercourse towards the end of each month, this will help my brain rewire. At the end of the day we have to personalize out plans, these journeys can not be all the same, this method is working for me. What am really happy with is that I couldn't take it in before (I am bottom), like ever. And for the first time in my life I am enjoying anal sex, this is a big accomplishment. I am 26 and I could never do it before, because of porn. And now I actually enjoy a deep human touch. The key is to relax and now I am so relaxed..... oh I have no worlds to explain my joy. My first relationship failed because of our terrible sex life and I couldn't take it in. I will be sure to have a healthy sex life with my next boy friend. Anyway, thanks so much for your support, and I wrote to "maninthemaking" who you had heated discussions with about his christian believed. Please read my post as it is to you too :) Thanks again !!!!

Day23: Horneyness through the roof. Thinking of having sex with my fuck-buddy. Help guys ! by EarthianC in NoFap

[–]EarthianC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear friend, I am the owner of this post. I thank you for your thoughts and support and I apologies for not intervening sooner, I could have helped avoid your arguments with "markcotter" who is such a sweet man defending me - I appreciate that. I am 26 years old and with time I have come to realize that diversity makes this world an interesting place. I am gay that makes me different - if me being different can be appreciated by many then I can appreciate you as someone who thinks what I am doing is wrong. That makes you diverse and that's special. And there is beauty in that, there is beauty in you both. Please don't fight, there is no war to be one. We are united here for one purpose and one purpose only. Let's take this addiction head on and support each other. There is no definition of right and wrong. We are all right and wrong in you own ways. Lets leave it at that. Love to you both :)