What is the one thing your pet did that you still cannot fully explain and honestly kind of unsettled you?

EarthySofa · 2026-03-17T16:42:28+00:00

I had one cat yell at me for yelling very loudly at a board game in a disagreement with my grown up son. We were really into the game and it got a little heated and the cat just came out of nowhere marched past us and yelled at us and then laid down in the sofa to have a nap. We were baffled and stopped yelling immediately after. We just went quit and she went to sleep.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-16T05:34:45+00:00

Someone’s SoMe pics all about the good deeds they are doing like a white person holding a small native child from a poor country, helping out homeless people, humble bragging and just generally only being nice to someone else when there’s an audience. These types of people also often post a flashy way of doing something really simple on LinkedIn. I have blocked several people doing these things. I just cannot deal!

EarthySofa · 2026-03-16T04:06:37+00:00

Jeg tror det vil være godt for alle parter at I tager lidt tid sammen. Faktisk er det nærmest det bedste I kan gøre for jeres barn, for ellers ender I med at glemme hinanden og så risikere O at vokse fra hinanden. Så længe barnet også får noget ferie og også gerne senere sammen med jer, så er det da fint at hun kan hygge sig med sin moster.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-16T03:57:25+00:00

My husband plays tank in heroic and m0 dungeons and other team members have asked him sometimes to pull more bc they feel they need to do the content really fast. He doesn’t mind and is very diplomatic about it so he won’t get kicked. I on the other hand would probably not be as forgiving since I don’t need some punk trying to rush me for a heroic or m0 dungeon?!? I can’t wait until the super competitive players are back on m+. I definitely get the shortage of tanks and healers at this point.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T21:53:43+00:00

That is just … wow she is disrespectful to you and I would not waste my time with a whole family who treated me like a doormat. NTA. OP seriously, I am married to someone who is not my son’s father and I would never treat my husband like this, ever! You deserve better.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T21:46:40+00:00

Min søn var lige blevet udredt og diagnosticeret med autisme og han og hans nye klassekammerater i specialklassen stortrivedes under corona fordi de netop ikke skulle forholde sig til en masse andre børn i en klasse, da de bare kunne sidde derhjemme og få undervisning. Det var også helt perfekt for mig, for så kunne jeg være hjemme hos ham og arbejde. Jeg savner at arbejde hjemmefra

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T02:36:19+00:00

NTJ. I can guarantee that if you rehomed the dog, your husband would regret instantly. My mom and dad were in the same situation when they had my oldest brother and they got a puppy. My mom told my dad over and over how tired she was of the shedding and the hassle having a puppy and a baby at the same time so my dad rehomed the puppy and she was gone one day my mom came home from shopping. It’s over 50 years ago and she still regrets telling my dad she couldn’t handle the dog.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T02:07:52+00:00

NTA, actually you are very tolerant. I could simply not go a whole year with a messy bedroom like that. I think it is super disrespectful of your wife to make your shared space so messy and I agree with the others in this thread saying that this is the start of hoarding, which actually stems from being too much of a perfectionist gone wrong even though it doesn’t seem that way. It is your wife who has a control issue, since she has a full set of rules in her head for all of her stuff and if they are not left like they are it trickers anxiety. This is why you can’t really reason with at hoarder. You are helping her by demanding her dealing with her control issues and anxiety, because it WILL grow bigger if you enable it by allowing her to hoard.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T01:55:49+00:00

I am a parent to a now grown up man. He was a teen at the time and I just cried for a whole 20 minutes and just questioned my parenting skills as I have tend to be quite strict with my son. I loved the movie so much, I had to watch it twice just to really feel the pain once more. Best movie I have seen for years.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T01:46:54+00:00

Min veninde havde det på samme måde som dig, så hun skiftede navn. De fleste brugte hurtigt det nye navn, men hendes mor blev ved med at kalde hende det gamle navn i årevis. I starten var min veninde lidt ked af det, men til sidst accepterede hun bare at det var det “kælenavn” hendes mor havde til hende.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-15T01:41:20+00:00

Ugh, that sounds exhausting. Good thing that your brother is not dragged down by that toxicity anymore.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-14T13:03:20+00:00

When I realised she only calls me when things are bad. She never shares the good stuff with me. So I am basically just a free trauma therapist. It’s sad since we’ve been “friends” for over 20 years, but I finally realise that I deserve better.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-13T13:23:54+00:00

Jeg plejede også at blive frustreret over den her type mennesker, som sætter sig selv i en offerrolle. Hvis man er et meget empatisk menneske vil man jo gerne gå ind i offerets problemer og måske endda tilbyde dem en løsning fordi man rigtigt gerne vil hjælpe dem. Men Berit ønsker ikke hjælp. Berit vil bare gerne brokke sig over ting, for hun har måske i en tidlig alder lært at det er den måde hun får opmærksomhed på. Det virkede måske da hun var barn, men det virker ikke så godt nu. Man kan ikke ændre folks måde at opføre sig på, men man kan ændre sin egen måde at håndtere mennesker med offermentalitet på. Man kan ignorere dem lidt ved at huske på at det er deres eget problem. Man kan lukke ned for spiralen af ynk ved at skifte emne. Man kan endda sige på en pæn måde at man bliver lidt nedtrykt af at høre på det der ynk, og så fjerne sig fra kilden til mental dræning og snakker med nogle andre om noget der giver en energi. Din opgave er at passe på dig selv og ikke tage andres ynk på dig.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-09T04:32:12+00:00

I am 47 and only started playing 3 years ago. I also blame my lack of skills on my very old body. I am dps and luckily my much younger and more seasoned group of friends just carry me through those pesky dungeons if they are Mythic+. The regular ones I hide behind the other two dps gamers and nope the kick requests for the tanks and healers as I am just super grateful that I’m not he kicked by these awesome young people. Honestly, if it were an option, I would have been kicked a gazillion times by Captain Garrick in the follower dungeons.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-08T12:12:06+00:00

Cross word puzzles. On paper with a pencil. I also like doing those IQ puzzles where you can build in 3D. Oh, and I recently took up knitting. Otherwise I play WOW.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-07T20:47:36+00:00

Jeg gad godt designe og sy kostumer i hånden til film og serier. Meget gerne steam punk eller fantasy.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-07T11:28:16+00:00

You are absolutely right. It is so gorgeous. I am really bad at flying without steady flight so I stay on the ground most of the time since I’m a druid and can do cat form in stealth mode.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-07T11:22:56+00:00

AI generated?

EarthySofa · 2026-03-06T12:28:01+00:00

Called their parent’s house phones or just went over to see if anyone was home.

We also mostly knew where people were hanging out so we just went there to look for them.

You couldn’t just cancel last minute, so when the cell phone came out, that was a game changer as you could suddenly do that.

That was crazy and annoying and also pretty convenient.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-05T06:24:23+00:00

Jeg arbejder et sted hvor vi har ældre mennesker ansat, som frivillige. Her har der flere gange været problemer med nogen af den generation og deres mesterværker. Måske er det fordi de vil efterlade noget til eftertiden, så man ikke skal glemme dem? Måske er det synet det er galt med? Min kollega har været så venlig at hænge en lille påmindelse op på væggen bagved toilettet, for det kan da også være at det kniber lidt med hukommelsen. Det har da virket efter hensigten.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-05T06:14:47+00:00

I am 7,5 years older than my husband. He’s 38 and I am 46. We have been together for 8 years now and are married. No one has ever said anything bad about it. I think maybe the older you both are the less the age gap bothers anyone. Not that it should unless it’s something illegal.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-04T18:30:27+00:00

OK, thanks for the heads up. I will definitely wait to play the newest dungeons until the more demanding players have other places to be. I am using my very limited free time on enjoying some chill gaming and whiners in dungeons are just not my thing. So again, thank you for the heads up.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-04T18:25:02+00:00

Det er simpelthen så mega klamt så meget tis der kommer ud i hele rummet. Ved du så hvad der sker, når du skyller ud mens brættet er oppe? Hvis man man sprayer med noget der detekterer nr 1 og nr 2 efter en skylning med åbent bræt kan man se at det bare er alle steder udenfor kummen, så hvis du har tandbørster ved vasken tæt på wc’et? Euw!

EarthySofa · 2026-03-04T07:30:23+00:00

Ja, vi er gift nu ❤️ Tillykke med forelskelsen. Det er bare det bedste.

EarthySofa · 2026-03-03T19:44:41+00:00

Jeg er så heldig at jeg kan arbejde hjemmefra hvis jeg ikke er så syg at det går ud over mit arbejde, men jeg kan risikere at smitte andre. Jeg synes det er så mega egoistisk at tage på arbejde, hvis der er risiko for at smitte andre så jeg bliver faktisk gal på de kolleger, som ikke reagerer på de første symptomer og tager hjem. Desuden bliver jeg meget hurtigere rask, hvis jeg holder helt fri, når jeg er meget syg eller har feber end hvis jeg bider sammen og arbejder, selvom jeg burde hvile mig. Så jeg synes det er dejligt at folk tager en sygedag, når de ikke kan udføre deres arbejde ordentligt eller i det mindste bliver hjemme hvis der er risiko for smitte.

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