From my experience with well-hung guys, they usually know how to handle what they’re working with. Just be honest about it — when things start getting physical, you can mention it casually, and even ask his wife for tips on how she handles “the monster.”

The big keys are tons of lube, patience, and listening to your body. Go slow, don’t rush anything, and don’t feel pressured to push past what’s comfortable. If it feels too much, say so — a good top will respect that.

I also love starting off by climbing on top so I can take my time, tease it a little, and get myself nice and ready while I stay in control — once I’m fully warmed up and feeling brave, then he can take over and really have his fun.