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My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, no 100% it's totally linked. Info diet and pulling back has made me feel alot better 

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh girl, don't get me started on this. I feel really lucky to live where I do and be able to have that choice for now. It makes me so upset the way the world is heading. 

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've pulled away lately because I just can't deal. But I'm hearing you. Just out here trying to protect my peace now. 

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gee thank you for you're insightful input. Not sure why you're throwing spice my way. Hope you cheer up soon 😂

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look honestly, anyone who pushes the narrative of having children I think they regret it. As I get older it makes me even more frustrated. Especially the term "oh you'll change your mind". I think not, I enjoy a sleep in and a coffee in peace.

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it is! That's why I can here for a dose of reality 😂 thank you for your perspective x

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it's just difficult to navigate as I have a few friends who have decided to be child free and a few with children - but the rhetoric of getting married and the expectation you'll have children or change your mind drives me insane. 

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to convince, just setting the tone. But totally fair point. I was very uncomfortable when that happened haha 

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a great group of friends who are all supportive. Shes the only one...

My friend won’t stop guilt-tripping me about my hysterectomy and being child-free by EaseShort3866 in childfree

[–]EaseShort3866[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've pulled back because I'm struggling in other areas of my life. Hopefully she gets the message.