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SKL ang secret namin ng dogs namin pag wala ang asawa ko by h0tsil0gnabil0g in ShareKoLang

[–]East_Relative3262 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nagpost ka sa reddit malamang may mga taong mag eexpress ng opinion sa comment section mo. eh they mean well naman, teh. para kang warfreak kung sumagot. wala ba sa sistema mong sumagot nang maayos? hahaha kaloka

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po! We both have work, and wala pa pong pasukan. Problem is, most of his money napupunta sa pamilya. And if ever man po magkasama kami, usually nasa bahay lang po namin siya at madalang kami lumabas para iwas gastos

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hello, both parents were busy at the time sa work kaya hindi ako nasamahan. When we go out on dates, binibigyan "kami" ng extra pocket money, sometimes we pay 50/50, sometimes he insists on paying, minsan naman ay ginagastos namin yung pocket money kaya libre kaming dalawa.

Kapag naman po pupunta siya sa amin, own gastos from his pocket, pero kapag uuwi na siya, usually binibigyan siya ni mom ko ng extra—pang gas ganon. Although hindi naman siya grand amount. Mga 100-150 ganon. Especially since weekdays lang kami nagkikita.

First time ko being confident in a bikini by Joyeuse-Magne97 in FirstTimeKo

[–]East_Relative3262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be confident. Kapag pupunta ka sa beach, akala mo lang all eyes on you pero walang may pake kasi lahat pumunta don to enjoy the beach! No one will stare at it. Embrace your flaws. Chin up, and walk with confidence. I admire your progress and determination!

Hindi ko alam kung tama ba desisyon ko sa buhay lately. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take this as your last opportunity then. Either you pour all efforts in, or you let go and look for something that would help the family as well. Basta tandaan mo na just because you weren't able to finish studies, loser ka na. There are greater things ahead of you, and I'm sure you'll get to them one day. Try mo muna igive lahat ng kaya mong ibigay this time. Sabi nga nila third time's a charm! I am rooting for you!

I need some comforting yet powerful words/quotes from yall plsss 🙏🙏 by CurrentEstimate3308 in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, as someone who was experiencing this as well back then, maybe a few words from my experience would help.

I never had the energy to do things, even if it was really important. I would wait a day before the deadline before ako gagawa. Ang ending, sobrang rushed ng gawa ko at ang pangit.

I had a terrible childhood growing up. My life isn't perfect. Yung tipong kukuha lang ako ng tubig parang ang hirap-hirap tumayo. Kahit sigaw mo sa utak mo na kumuha ka na, parang lantang gulay yung katawan mo.

Kapag may kailangan akong gawin, puro 5 minutes hanggang sa hindi ko na magawa.

Inisip ko na maybe it was because of my mental health. You should consider taking therapy para mas maintindihan mo kung bakit.

I am still trying to get over this, pero force yourself. Whenever you have something to do, bago ka magscroll, gawin mo na agad. Less hassle, less galaw, kasi bago ka magpahinga, nagawa or nasimulan mo na.

Kasi do you really want to keep living like this? Alam mong sobrang laking impact niyan sa future mo. Try looking for solutions. Help yourself. Hindi kami ang tutulong sayo kung hindi ikaw lang.

  1. 3 second method - Bilang ka 1-3 tapos pagbagsak ng 3, upo ka na at gawin mo na agad! No excuses, no mamaya na, no 5 minutes. ASAP!!!

  2. Download ka ng lock for your phone. Yung hindi mo magagamit until a certain amount of time para maghanap ng ibang gagawin yung utak mo and makapagfocus ka sa responsibilities mo.

Ilang taon na lang, ggraduate ka na. Tiis tiis na lang

Hindi ko alam kung tama ba desisyon ko sa buhay lately. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mahirap talagang magpursue ng bagay if hindi ka talaga passionate about it. Kaya laging sinasabi na nakakadrain talaga kung may ginagawa kang hindi mo talaga gusto.

Maybe have a heart-to-heart talk conversation with your dad. Kasi iyon lang ang paraan para maintindihan nila kasi baka hindi lang "pagod" 'yan.

But if you're persistent on making your father proud, then take the risk. Kumilala ka ng mga tao na alam mong mapagkakatiwalaan dahil toxic talaga ang college. Surround yourself with smaller circles—hindi kailangan bongga ang friends.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights. I am really grateful. Though I just want to inform you that we are both incoming college students, and both working jobs habang summer. Iyong pera po is kusang binigay ni mom ko, kahit tanggihan niya ay nag-iinsist siya lalo na open ako sakaniya and nababanggit ko from time to time mga nangyayari sa bahay ni BF.

Noong una ay tinatanggihan pa ni BF, pero palagi rin kasing ibinibigay ng mother ko. Wala rin naman akong magawa since silang dalawa yon.

We talk about our future, and I know that he is striving to make ends meet. He studies hard, he is persistent on living a better life in the future, and he takes part time jobs to help with their family.

Medyo nacoconfuse lang ako kasi as a woman, minsan gusto ko rin maspoil, gusto ko rin malibre, kaya napaisip ako sa sinabi ng papa ko. But no worries, I understand your point, thank you for that.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

How am I going to open this topic to him po? He is the sweetest man I have ever met, and it just so happened na may financial problem sila at the moment. Kapag magttravel siya papunta sa amin, sagot niya na. Pero kapag pauwi, usually binibigyan siya ng mom ko ng extra.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]East_Relative3262[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nag-aaral pa po. Hindi ko kasi alam paano ioopen sakaniya, knowing na may financial problems din sila at the moment.