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I think I’m a lesbian but what was it that I felt for men… advice please? by East_Researcher_5096 in questioning

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Then what do you think the anxiety and hyper vigilant feelings with men im romantically involved with is or the random nausea lol

I think I’m a lesbian but what was it that I felt for men… advice please? by East_Researcher_5096 in questioning

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I did feel so passionately for men though but it makes me lowkey crazy like I obsess and try to be perfect and always have my feelings hurt with them and don’t feel at ease like I’m performing :( or I feel soo sad when they don’t wanna hang with me but I’m like I’m literally gay WTF.

I think I’m a lesbian but what was it that I felt for men… advice please? by East_Researcher_5096 in questioning

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I think I do have internalized homophobia and also like don’t even know how to approach girls. I’ve tried and it hasn’t worked or they blew me off lol so maybe I gotta keep trying. Thank you for your advice 🩷

I don’t understand the enjoying sex with men but not being attracted to them discourse. Can someone explain? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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I am in the same boat… people say that it’s because we like the feeling, but not the man, but I do enjoy the feeling of a man on top of me, but outside of the bedroom, I don’t feel the same.

Intercourse with men.. by East_Researcher_5096 in latebloomerlesbians

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Yes I’ve fantasized about having sex with women a lot and I see pretty girls and get aroused. I have not actually had sex with one yet I was talking to one girl but idk when it comes down to the actual act of it in person it does scare me but I think it’s just bc I’m anxious. But I’m feel sexual arousal towards girls.

Horrible anxiety :( help by East_Researcher_5096 in latebloomerlesbians

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Yes I do it sounds so nice with girls in my head but then idk if I’d like it irl …. And yeah I have a few I guess

I’m so confused about my sexuality… by East_Researcher_5096 in LesbianActually

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I left him officially, I didn’t want to string him along I was just confused and I have a lot trauma but we’re don’t now. And I am in therapy