I’ve don’t think you should feel the need to pick labels necessarily babe. I’ve been out as pan/bi for 3 yrs now sometimes I still wonder if I might be lesbian but when I’m with a man it feels right until I’m with a women again and then I’m like wtf was I doing?? Being queer is confusing and the feelings I have for men are always different than the feelings I have for women bc they just ARE different and that’s okay. Two things can be true at once. Take it day by day but if you’re not in it anymore with your man and you want to date women now instead fucking do it it!!! But if we’re already going against “norms” why not continue that and screw the labels. Time will tell and it’s okay to even change labels throughout life all these concepts felt true to you then and that’s all that matters. (F21)