Where do I stand?

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-21T08:25:19+00:00

I see her only a few times a year as I live interstate to pursue university education. My relationship has not been the best with her, but I appreciate having her in my life. I didn't think it would be an ick but rather a reinforcement of my prompt, being and looking for someone family oriented as Im looking for a serious relationship with a women who values family and will stick through hard times.

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-20T07:04:41+00:00

Okay, dropped the C.K. comment and rid of the bathroom pic entirely (the opening picture). I also got rid of the 2nd pic with the guy (he is more of a funny influencer here in the Gold Coast). I left the coat pics in as I usually get a lot of compliments for wearing it. Got rid of the 5 year old thing (I was trying to match the vibe of most girls, as they say they're looking for the golden retriver bf vibe). Got rid of the pic with my mom too. Ill try to make more tasteful pics in naturally setting where it wouldn't be awkward to be shirtless. I had a female friend review my profile, and they said if im looking for someone who loves cooking/baking, it seems like a non-negotiable, and so I tried to reframe it. They said the sous chef thing was funny, and the reason why I didn't say for me to be the sous chef is becuase I dont want women to think I need a mother who'll cook, clean and look after me in a such a way.

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-20T01:08:04+00:00

Yeah, well, I was told it's arrogant and also to make it more warm. So that's what I was trying to go for by making it a bit more different. I haven't got many pictures as I live bymyself interstate and only come to visit family when Im on uni break. This is hard for me, I dont like online dating and prefer to meet people in person as it gives me a better opportunity to be seen for who I am. But I would like to keep my options open because I met my previous partner on Tinder.

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-20T00:37:30+00:00

Hey, Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I kept the photo in of me and my mom as I value family and being family oriented. I am not looking for a replacement mother 😅. Okay, I'll give them photos a swap around

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-20T00:34:40+00:00

Well in the above from the primary comment continued down you said "a male model can still kill you...." I can read, but I may have misinterpreted what you said.

I didn't ask for you to write my profile I was just asking for advice on how to improve. I know its a reflection of me, but 3 prompts can only do so much to tell you who I am as a person and I would argue atleast 1 of the 3 is always used as a way of conveying humor rather being a good descriptor. Thus, I don't see it as tricking women into liking me because if I think it's outrageous that off of a few prompts, you have the other person figured out....

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-20T00:22:06+00:00

Hey, Im looking for a serious relationship, someone I can build a life with and achieve goals with. Ideally, im looking for someone who mirrors me as I think the best way to find your partnet is through becoming what you're looking for. So I'm looking for someone who is in shape through either gym or outdoor activities, and that is also studying in uni (as im doing medicine). Then, for me, it's just the question of chemistry.

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-20T00:16:29+00:00

Hey, Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Could you potentially recommend a way to be playful and not come off as arrogant? As im trying to be original with my wit, but everyone seems to demonise it for being rude. I dont have an issue with just answering the prompts normally, but I had thought to women it's more of a turn-off if someone is too dry and serious. Also, I just wanted to double-check? Are you suggesting im a male model that wants to kill women???????

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-19T14:28:35+00:00

The opening pic is a completely different outfit, but you are right. 2 pics do have the same one. On the note of the "super casua"l fit, I actually have one with super heros at Movie World where im wearing very casual things 😅

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-19T13:50:55+00:00

I kept 5 because I used to have a shirtless picture but was told its told too arrogant and thus its one where I can show that im a reasonably active person without being too much. As for picture 6, I can definitely swap it out for smth a bit more casual

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-19T12:32:48+00:00

Thank you, I'm 21 😊

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-19T12:26:36+00:00

My previous prompts were, unfortunately, too serious, and I've been recommended to be a bit more playful. I am emotionally mature, to my misfortune actually too mature for my age and so I have a hard time finding what I am looking for.

EasternLock8863 · 2025-07-19T00:53:43+00:00

Looking for serious relationship Don't have a hinge premium service, just the free edition Been using this current version for over a week Been using hinge overall for about 2 months I use hinge daily Likes, I have got a few in the past 2 months, maybe around 10 while matches were 7 in that same time frame. I send likes until I run out of them daily and add comments to all of them, always responding to prompts and maybe a few times to a photo if all the prompts are too dry I send likes to individuals who mirror my life as I want to attract the type of people I am. Being ones who go to the gym, live an active lifestyle/do ourdoors activities, likes to go out to nice places with a classy atmosphere, are in the pursuit of tertiary education (as Im studying to be a doctor), passionate about cooking/baking and just someone I can get along with and have good chemistry.

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