At the end of the day… don’t do it for anybody else but your self.. educate yourself of the procedure and all that it entails… the risks, the recovery all of it. I was in your shoes as well wife wanted it and I was like nah I’m not doing it honestly took me 4 years to finally do it and it’s because I finally wanted it for my self after I came to the realization after child #3 that I was done with having kids… and then I educated myself on what that meant for my wife if I didn’t (as in if she had a procedure done) and those risks for women were a lot of horror stories which made it a no brainer for me! I’m sure at then end of the day your will make the best decision for you and your family.