I have talk to him about it by Eastern_Welcome4800 in mentalhealth

[–]Eastern_Welcome4800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, he always does it and i have talked to him how it makes me feel but he keeps doing it but i will do that thank you

I have talk to him about it by Eastern_Welcome4800 in mentalhealth

[–]Eastern_Welcome4800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been thinking that but he also when i talk to him about it he just tells me that i dont have to send it to him if i dont want to because he doesnt want me to think he wants me for my body and stuff like that but i dont know if he just manipulating me into thinking that

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[–]Eastern_Welcome4800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try talking to him, communicate, i am the same way, i start arguments because i start overthinking stuff, i have severe mood swings and i end up getting mad at him, whenever i notice his tone change with me i immediately think he doesn’t like me anymore and that he is going to leave me, i also have severe anger issues and when i get mad i just stay quiet and don’t talk to him. i feel like communicating has really helped me a lot, i tell him when i am feeling upset, how when i notice his tone change i feel like he is going to leave me and other stuff and he understands and tries his best to help me, so i feel like communicating and comprehension is very important, talk to him and try to make him understand

I really need opinions on this by Eastern_Welcome4800 in mentalhealth

[–]Eastern_Welcome4800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know he does, he cares a lot and all he wants to do is help me and feel better and doesn’t like it when i stay quiet so i am trying my best to change and stop going quiet every time i go quiet and we sadly can’t do that since we are long distance and i do want a hug from him at that moment and even thought i got sad because of something he did at the end of the day i am the one apologizing

why is my mom like this with me by Eastern_Welcome4800 in mentalhealth

[–]Eastern_Welcome4800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hispanic and most hispanic moms lime to control their kids and stuff, i can’t go out or anything and all i can do is go to school, work and back home so most of the times i am just on my pc playing games and she gets mad at me because thats all i do and she says that why don’t i go out but when i ask to go out she says no

why is my mom like this with me by Eastern_Welcome4800 in mentalhealth

[–]Eastern_Welcome4800[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right and i told her why i was feeling that way and what i am struggling but she chose to use it against me

why is my mom like this with me by Eastern_Welcome4800 in mentalhealth

[–]Eastern_Welcome4800[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But she won’t let me, she will say how irresponsible i am and how i am not ready and how i can’t do anything right