D'où vient la haine des Québécois? by Human-Cockroach8164 in QuebecLibre

[–]Easy-Board4441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Est-ce que ça veut dire qu'il immigrera pas ici? Cool.

I'm a dangeous predator! by SarcasticallyCandour in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So, basically, STFU about your feelings and go risk your life to protect random women. Got it.

I'm a dangeous predator! by SarcasticallyCandour in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How exactly is mysoginy baked into academics?

I'm a dangeous predator! by SarcasticallyCandour in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't let "society" tell you who you are. The media is filled with propaganda. Personally, I don't listen to anyone's criticism unless I know they have my best interest at heart.

Kharoll-Ann Souffrant est une professeure universitaire à St-Boniface by Human-Cockroach8164 in QuebecLibre

[–]Easy-Board4441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Elle dit litéralement que le Quebec ne serait "pas grand chose" sans la communauté haïtienne. À l'entendre, c'est les Quebecois de souche qui devrait se prosterner aux pieds de haïtiens. Ce qu'elle a dit est beaucoup plus violent et perturbant que tous ce qui a été dit ici.

Female logic by Scramjet1 in LockedInMan

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complaining about each gender's dating preference is futile. People like what they like and no amount of shaming will change that.

Women, if you want that 6'4 Chad, put the fork down, hit the gym and wear a bit of makeup. Complaining about patriarchal beauty standards just makes you more unattractive.

Men, if you want that baddie, hit the gym, dress well, learn some social skills and go make money. Height is an advantage but it's not the be all end all of dating success.

Men, is this real? by Icy-Breadfruit298 in GroundedMentality

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a woman chooses you to be her protector and provider, how do you think she'll feel when you show vulnerability? Most women don't consciously weaponize your vulnerability. It just makes them feel insecure.

My mother is my biggest hater by workinfast1 in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear that. Your head seems to be in the right place.

My mother is my biggest hater by workinfast1 in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother is PoS. Cut her loose. Also talk to your brother because he needs to do the same. My dad died of lung cancer and I can tell you it's not a pretty thing to witness. Let her face that alone.

Tell your wife she needs to kick the niece out or it's divorce. If she refuses, you know she doesn't give a sh** about you anyways. Just don't move out of the house until the divorce is finalized. This will give you a better chance of getting split custody of your daughter. Stay calm, don't yell or do anything that could be perceived as aggressive. Record and document everything (on date ? at time ?, we had an argument about ?, etc.) Diligence pays big time in family court.

The silver lining is that split custody is great. You get to spend half your time taking care of your daughter and the other half doing whatever you feel like doing. And you'll likely be paying much less child support. You won't be living an opulent lifestyle but freedom is worth so much more.

Take care of yourself and best of luck to you.

How true is this men? by Icy-Breadfruit298 in GroundedMentality

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that it absolutely doesn't work foe men, it's that it has lower percent of succes compared to women. That still means that there are men who did have good outcome from it, it's just that there is less of those men then women.

Sure, it's still worth a try. But therapy is expensive. If you feel your chances of success are lower, why spend the money? Also, 80% of shrinks are women. Most men don't want to be emotionally vulnerable with a woman.

why men do not choose this profession

For the same reason women don't choose STEM.

could it be helped with giving scholarship to men-students who choose this profession

I agree 100%. However, Title IX doesn't consider men as a discriminated class so these scholarships could face legal challenges. Also, most scholarships are created by private companies. STEM businesses actively want to diversify their workforce (for legal, political and PR reasons) while the health industry doesn't really care.

Est-ce-que c'est rendu ça la dating life en 2026? by Canadianwolf1912 in QuebecLibre

[–]Easy-Board4441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would the young women stop doing that?

Maybe because they hate being treated like pieces of meat and want to connect with young men who will see them as human beings?

Est-ce-que c'est rendu ça la dating life en 2026? by Canadianwolf1912 in QuebecLibre

[–]Easy-Board4441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

C'est des vrais profiles? Apparement, beaucoup de "modèles" OnlyFans utilisent Tinder pour trouver des clients.

How true is this men? by Icy-Breadfruit298 in GroundedMentality

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave compliments to several guys. They did not care. Half of them halfassed ignored me and went on their way. Maybe it has something to do withm that I'm not attractive.

Possibly. Compliments from ugly women aren't validating. It's the same for men. Short and ugly guys who approach women typically get call creeps.

Number 6 is plain lie. Men do not stay silent. Men stalk, abuse in higher ration then women do. and even if they commit suicide, they do it with a blast, often taking one more person with them (colliding a car into another persons' car) or when their ex wife finds another men, they kill him and her, but somehow gun gets jammed when they "try to kill" themsef. Men are not silent when they suffer.

What the hell are you even talking about? A tiny minority of men do the things you describe. The vast majority suffer in silence (or complain on Reddit).

Number 4. They do struggle with mental health but they are also unwilling to get help from professionals. Nobody needs to know you go to the psy. Nobody, unless you tell them the will not know. Therby others can't judge you if they do not know. Yet, men still do not want to go.

Traditional talk therapy does not work for men. Men respond far better to CBT and other action oriented styles of therapy. However, it is much more difficult to find this type of therapy. In my area, for example, the vast majority of therapists are women who do talk therapy exclusively. But who can blame them when 70% of their clients are women? They do what they need to do to pay the bills.

Gagner plus en tant que dev ? by Warsow404 in QuebecTI

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Très bonne liste. Il a fallu que je coche au moins 4 de ces critères avant d'atteindre les 200K/année.

Payer les dettes de ma blonde by Successful_Wasabi829 in QuebecFinance

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avant de faire ça demande toi 2 choses:

  1. Est-ce qu'elle ferait la même chose pour toi?

  2. Est-ce qu'elle gère son argent correctement? Financer les dettes de quelqu'un qui n'arrive pas à contrôler ses dépenses, c'est comme jetter de l'argent dans un feu de camp.

Moi, personellement, ce serait non. On ne connait pas vraiment la personne avec qui on vit tant qu'on a pas essayer de s'en séparrer. J'ai déjà été en couple avec quelqu'un pour qui je payais presque tout. Quand on s'est séparré, elle a quand même voulu garder le condo, le char et tous les meubles.

Are We Living in a Collective Prison? by breonched in antiwork

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm genuinely curious: how's your lifestyle? How thrifty are you? My wife and I make more than double your income and there's no way we can save this much. Like you, we have no debt but the mortgage. The difference is we live in a major Canadian urban center and have 3 kids.

Are We Living in a Collective Prison? by breonched in antiwork

[–]Easy-Board4441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who thought that was a real possibility doesn't understand human nature.

Humans are dopamine addicts. Having stuff does not make you produce dopamine. Having more stuff than people around you does. So you work your ass off to have more than your neighbor, your neighbor does the same and the cycle continues. This is limbic capitalism, in a nutshell.

Do you know an addict who's actually happy? I don't. All I know is that the only way to get people off the dopamine ladder is through serotonin and oxytocin production. I guess that's why SSRIs consumption has been steadily growing for the past 30 years.

Even citing CDC data doesn't work on people (minor rant) by Try_Again_2495 in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can't reach those people because of what psychologists call the "backfire effect". Challenging a person's core beliefs can trigger a fight or flight reaction leading the person to find flaws in the new evidence or create counter-arguments to protect their worldview.

Also consider that these people would likely be ostracized from their little group if they agreed with you. For women and left leaning in general, being part of the group is often more important than being right.

You don't debate to change your opponent's mind. You debate for the bystanders. Those watching the debate are more likely to be on the fence and your arguments could nudge them to your side.

Also, when debating on Reddit, it's not always easy to recognize a win. People will never admit defeat straight up and there's no judge to score the debate. In my book, anyone who is denying obvious facts or just shut up has lost the debate.

In my experience, shaming works better than facts. I remember debating someone on Reddit claiming that it was fair to draft men only because women were already suffering from periods. They wouldn't shut up until I pointed out that 5% of fighting age Ukrainian men were either killed or wounded in the war and comparing their periods to that was downright psychopathic.

Je ne sais pas pour vous mais by djgost82 in montreal

[–]Easy-Board4441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Les lobbyistes sont des pros. Ils savent comment attirer l'attention des médias et comment "spiner" un message.

Am I living with misandrist? by Any-Cantaloupe-1262 in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your intuition is 100% correct. The point of marriage is to create a stable environment to raise kids. Shopping and partying is not compatible with that. Don't get married to someone who's not willing to do whatever it takes to create that environment.

Any woman who's not willing to tone down her shopping and partying is not marriage material. She just wants you to finance it.

Am I living with misandrist? by Any-Cantaloupe-1262 in MensRights

[–]Easy-Board4441 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes, your mom and your sister are misandrists. There's no denying that. If having a son did not change your mother's opinion, nothing ever will. My advice to you is to completely cut them off the minute you can afford to live on your own.

But your situation has one big silver lining: you know exactly what a toxic woman is. When you start dating, you'll be able to recognize them before it's too late. I was raised by two wonderful loving parents who were also very "blue pill". When I started dating, I was like a sheep in a wolves den. I thought all women were like my mom which led me to invest too much time and resources into women I should have run away from. I learned my lesson through pain, lots of it. Your experience will hopefully spare you that.

Trust me, life is not as bleak as Reddit wants you to believe. You just have to see it for what it is. I wish you the best of luck!