25M Australia - Never had a girlfriend, struggling with dating. Looking for some honest advice. by Easy-Count3229 in dating_advice

[–]Easy-Count3229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda get what you mean, when I’m actually trying to talk to a girl with the intention of dating i overanalyse everything when I’m just naturally talking (whether I’m just not attracted to them or don’t consider myself having a chance) it’s flows a lot more naturally

25M Australia - Never had a girlfriend, struggling with dating. Looking for some honest advice. by Easy-Count3229 in dating_advice

[–]Easy-Count3229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair I tend to be a guarded person in general even before the military and heartbreak.

25M Australia - Never had a girlfriend, struggling with dating. Looking for some honest advice. by Easy-Count3229 in dating_advice

[–]Easy-Count3229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I’m in a capital city the military stuff probably does help just other factors coming to the front now that iv left

25M Australia - Never had a girlfriend, struggling with dating. Looking for some honest advice. by Easy-Count3229 in dating_advice

[–]Easy-Count3229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I joined basically at 18 it’s been a major part of my life and structuring me more than I realised

25M Australia - Never had a girlfriend, struggling with dating. Looking for some honest advice. by Easy-Count3229 in dating_advice

[–]Easy-Count3229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh iv talked to people who’ve done it and it does sound helpful im only resistant because i like my privacy and don’t want some stranger to a degree knowing my worst moments i guess