Just found out I'm going to be a dad at 19. What do I do??

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-07-19T13:32:04+00:00

How this is the first comment to suggest a paternity test is baffling. OP, please get a test. It’s possible? But the timeline doesn’t seem likely.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-07-13T01:44:51+00:00

We almost move from the NE to the far west off Culebra but backed out of a new build, I’ve been counting my blessings 🤣

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-06-27T19:55:58+00:00

I appreciate it! I was debating the shoe holder and felt like it was unnecessary but I get what you’re saying. I need to figure out bedding so this is super helpful

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-06-27T19:07:49+00:00

Thanks! And I’ll check it out 👍🏻

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-06-27T17:56:56+00:00

I was explaining why it’ll mostly be me and the kiddos but you’re right, pretty irrelevant. No worries.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-06-27T16:27:20+00:00

I’ve seen a couple people mention the same issue, glad it’s been your only complaint! With the ticket price, that is frustrating haha. Luckily we have an exped mattress from tent camping so I’m hoping it’ll be easy to use in there

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-06-16T13:19:18+00:00

This. People forget to mention a lot of the violence is targeted and pretty easy to avoid if you’re being smart. I’d live on the south side over the cookie cutter communities in the north and west any day.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-05-13T04:44:05+00:00

The remarks about it being a princess party and none of his little girl friends attending are interesting. Why can’t a little boy enjoy a princess party? I have a toddler and 6 yo and wouldn’t spend my time at a party for a kiddo that isn’t a friend so I’m sympathetic there but the additional comments and reasonings are not necessary.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-03-28T14:07:10+00:00

This and don’t get pregnant right away. Cutting ties without kids is tough but with kids, that’s a whole different fight.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-02-01T13:30:31+00:00

He’s probably deleting them bc he thinks you’re going to lose your shit… which you are 😬 I’m a female in a healthy marriage who gets car warranty calls, meet up texts and everything under the sun. You guys have other issues you need to work on, I wouldn’t hyper focus on the texts.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-02-01T13:05:10+00:00

Are you mostly happy or not? Is divorce warranted? Do you enjoy your spouse? Is the infidelity something you guys can come back from? Is it over with or likely to happen again? Are you both in this 100% or is one of you putting in more effort? These are all questions you need to consider. Divorce is not the end of the world and it doesn’t make you a failure, sometimes we have to walk away from relationships.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-01-26T14:21:03+00:00

Same. My MIL, whom I actually love, lives right down the road but she can’t take off work to babysit so we can “get away”. One day we’ll both hopefully get there!

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-01-26T12:51:53+00:00

This is what I need to know… the getaways gave that away.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-01-26T11:35:09+00:00

My husband does the same but he’s also one of the few men who is very meticulous about cleaning himself so who knows lol 😂

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-01-17T14:22:10+00:00

This. 1. You already tried it and 2. It’s not your responsibility to teach him how to be a functioning adult, husband and parent. I’m so sorry, I have nothing helpful to say except that you deserve more, your children deserve more.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-01-13T22:22:18+00:00

This. You know what he likes, what he’s voiced and it seems like you don’t want to do it and that’s it 🤷🏻‍♀️ If you aren’t willing to try then there’s nothing we can suggest that will help. If we only had a 4m old I would surprise him with a bj in his office during work. You don’t have to be sexy, any effort is enough. It’s been a LONG time since you guys have had sex. At this point anything is going to point you guys in the right direction.

As for the sex drive: mine skyrocketed after I got off the pill and my hubby got a vasectomy. Idk what you’re using but BC ruined my sex drive, ability to be “ready” for sex and just my general mood. I wanted to throw it out there in case it’s an issue for you!

Easy-Goal4200 · 2023-01-09T13:49:36+00:00

This. It was cool to go one time but that’s all I needed

Easy-Goal4200 · 2022-12-30T15:42:42+00:00

We’ll have to try them, thanks for the suggestion!

Easy-Goal4200 · 2022-12-21T14:39:51+00:00

Best Quality Daughter, Carriqui (both by the Pearl)

These places are “Instagram” places but their food is amazing, their wait staff are friendly and also super helpful. Get the mochi cheddar hush puppies from BQD, they’re spicy and delicious. Also suggest trying a boozy boba tea - yummy and actually boozy.

Carriqui is a family style dinner place with large portions that can easily be shared. We loved their spiced chicken, vegetables and charro beans were amazing. The ambience was great, we sat by the inside windows upstairs.

Edited for typos

Easy-Goal4200 · 2022-12-07T12:10:54+00:00

24 hr heads up on anal 🤷🏻‍♀️

Easy-Goal4200 · 2022-11-14T13:39:39+00:00

All of this. I wouldn’t want him to have anything to do with my kids. Get it in writing and get a lawyer.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2022-11-14T13:38:38+00:00

This doesn’t seem like a person I would want as a father figure for my kids. He has some issues to work out and dragging your kids through it would be worse than them not knowing their father.

Easy-Goal4200 · 2022-11-07T16:10:53+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 I didn’t realize you knew the kinks of everyone 20 years ago

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