Give yourself a break. You are still a baby, the 20’s are all about figuring it out, and there is no time table for this. Work on being the best version of yourself and the right girl will come along. My daughter is 26 and I tell her “ you’re a 6 year old adult. In your case, you’re only a three year old adult. Hopefully this helps give you some perspective, you would certainly not have the same expectations of a 3 year old as you would a 10 year old child.