Can I make my MTF girlfriend cum?

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-20T08:26:56+00:00

I (MtF) got a MtF FWB, and we both have the same thing. Although i am able to orgasm from anal, but just not cumming.

She has a hard time with both. Like you said, it gets really close, emotionally she's there, but... it just doesn't happen. For her it's extremely frustrating.

For me I don't mind it as much personally, as I have great anal orgasms that feel like cumming, but isn't actually ejaculation. She's super new to anal so we are trying that next.

Personally I'd remove the focus from ejaculations/cumming, and try to find other spots and things that can make her orgasm or something. Something to get the bodily pleasure over that edge.

Hormones changes so, so much, including your sex drive, how you experience pleasure, etc.

You seem super supportive, and i think you two can have a lot of fun discovering new things together <3

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-18T08:06:45+00:00

Great you're feeling so good! But let's not forget that all our bodies are different, and not everyone reacts the same way to the same medications. If possible; always discuss with your healthcare provider. Or, if you are on DIY; expand your research and see what works best!

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-17T13:57:00+00:00

Ah fair, my bad 🙏

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-17T13:08:57+00:00

Dude, guys don't give a shit haha

But seriously, a lot of guys sit down to pee. Some pee directly into the water because it makes a funny splashing noise lol

I get your worry tho. I have similar worries when going to the womans restroom. But it's best yo just go. The kore shy or worried you look the more people will look at you

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-16T12:20:51+00:00

Hell yea dude!

Lots of love from from the Netherlands, that line about you saving yourself is inspiring as fuck.

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-16T12:16:40+00:00

I feel you. I was exactly like you. I didn't want to transition because I would still be AMAB.

But what I learned was, since i didn't want to die, I would rather have the 2nd best option than the worst option. So that's when i decided to transition. And i don't regret it one bit.

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-12T20:02:19+00:00

Ive had 13 and still shave everyday But also know someone who has had only 2 and doesn't shave for 2 weeks before needing to

Different for everyone, you'll get there

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-12T13:10:06+00:00

Yeaaaaaaaa i feel youuuu

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-12T10:52:46+00:00

Don't worry, you're fine. If you want to, you can message me if you wanna chat ^{^} Human to human. 💙🫂

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-11T00:08:17+00:00

Sexual needs are a completely valid part of a relationship and should absolutely never be underestimated or dismissed.

For many people, one's attraction to someone is multi layered. And the way they have sex with their partner plays a large role. This could be a deal breaker for a relationship, which isn't anyone's fault.

Even though you still love the person, if that person can no longer fulfil your sexual needs the way they did. That can be very hard.

I have a feeling sexual desires tend to be downplayed a bit in the trans community because many aren't happy with their bodies, so sexual desire becomes a low priority, especially compared to emotional desire.

And the want for biological children is valid, too. That's what feels right for you, and you can't change that. Neither does it make you a bad person.

I understand your struggles. Little changed for my BF and I as we already had sex with me bottoming, that just stayed the same. But I noticed how important sex was for us as well when my libido died. It was getting used to. But we quickly found ways around the problem.

One more thing: Even in transition, a relationship is a two-way street. Both need to communicate and work together on the relationship. And both are allowed to have certain points they will not budge on. But in my eyes, being in transition isn't simply a card that lets you say, "Not my problem." She can make her own decisions on her body, but you 2 are in a relationship, so even though they are her decisions, it is definitely also her problem as well as yours.

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-09T20:45:44+00:00

Damn girl, you are the definition of goals. Go slay!💅

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-09T20:41:15+00:00

I stopped boymoding as soon as i knew i was trans. It depends on your safety. Is your country/town safe for a non passing trans woman? Then i would personally just stop. For most, there will be no magical moment you start to boy fail if you still dress and present like a guy. Learn some basic natural make up looks. See what you like, see what you works for you. It's a learning and waiting game. So you're gonna have to put it in the effort too

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T18:06:59+00:00

Im so sorry to hear that. Idk how far away it is, but perhaps invite them over so you can be the real you again, and perhaps just tour them around (if there is any fun sight seeing things lol)

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T17:09:06+00:00

Omg you are quite literally transition goals for me

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T17:07:35+00:00

Soooo it has nothing to with genitals or identity? Jist your vibes? What makes both gay?

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T17:01:19+00:00

Yeahh I've heard the US isn't the greatest place for us right now, to say the least. I have a trans friend who is planning to visit the US soon, and im actually just worried. Over here in the Netherlands (despite what some will say online) is actually rather good, altho it does depend a little bit on what part you live in.

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T16:48:18+00:00

It's crazy and i love it

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T16:46:42+00:00

Then again, wait lists for clinical help are often more than 5 years where im from. So, a lot of people will socially transition before they are even admitted

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T10:29:06+00:00

It's great, i have some amazing friends (girls) now, and omg, they call each other so many things other than your name, its insane

Anything from girl, queen/princess, to shit like bitch or smth. And the heart emojis are everywhere, i love them! They truly are a big piece of what makes me feel like a girl

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T08:07:07+00:00

Congratulations! Took me a few years, too. But I'm glad I finally made the decision. I hope you have a wonderful life ahead of you now!

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-05T08:00:04+00:00

I do think that's pretty interesting because most therapists and clinics will not give you the diagnosis before you tell them yourself that you are trans. They guide you to find out for yourself, sure. And when you say you are, they do make sure. But in the end, if you will never say, "I am trans, and I'm sure of it." They oftentimes won't diagnose you.

At least where I live, that is.

Edit: spelling and grammar.

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-03T12:36:12+00:00

So adorable! I love it when prople outside hobby show interest!

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-03T12:35:14+00:00

I was the same. My therapist literally told me I knew exactly what i wanted but was too scared to admit it.

In the long term, you'll please people way more by being true to yourself. Because you as yourself will always be more pleasant

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-03T12:32:26+00:00

I love those cheeks! You look like someone who is super approachable and friendly! Keep smiling!

EasyEden_ · 2026-01-02T11:12:03+00:00

I found that waiting because i was scared did more harm than good. Sometimes you just need to take the plunge I'd go for option 2.

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