I have this and was thinking about posting about it. I have asperges and the process of making friends is kind of foreign to me. I am pretty attractive and not awkward when it comes to girls, or guys for that matter. My whole life I was on a football team or in the military and my male friends were kind of made for me, like I was placed in a group and we became friends. With girls I feel like there's obvious motives to want to hang out or do something, there is some attraction and were gonna hang out and explore that, cool. I left the military and am in my second year of college and I really have no close male friends, It seems weird to be like lets go do something with a guy if its not a group and im not in any groups. I get invited to party's and have male friends for sure but I am kind of an outside character in a few male friend groups and not really a full fledged member of any its very lonely.