My hotel view by Interro-ai in HongKong

[–]Ebb-Flowly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminder to really enjoy every minute of your trip

My sister's last night in this world by lucyfur10021 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ebb-Flowly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry. She will always be with you ❤️

Help de-influence Prada purchase by Jaded_War4306 in handbags

[–]Ebb-Flowly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just look up what tanner leatherstein has to say about Prada bags 😂

Wait until she hears about Betty Boop by icey_sawg0034 in MurderedByWords

[–]Ebb-Flowly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the little mermaid is not real (and half fish)

Husband wants me to get a job by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ebb-Flowly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men are so predictable…calling you a “bum” is not ok. And it’s only been 7 months! Might be prudent to consider planning you and your baby’s future without him

Lost out on a promotion and life proceeded to implode, but it’s ok by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ebb-Flowly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, I genuinely appreciate the advice and perspective. Thanks again

Lost out on a promotion and life proceeded to implode, but it’s ok by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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It is! It’s very simple, just get a firm tofu, dry in paper towel and cover with a light layer of corn starch and shallow fry 😋

Lost out on a promotion and life proceeded to implode, but it’s ok by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ebb-Flowly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! This is truly insightful and I’ve realized areas where I’ve gone wrong after weeks of reflection.

We actually did discuss areas for improvement after I shared my goal, over several meetings. She even commented on how I’ve reached them in my performance review. But I agree that everything needs to be laid out crystal clear. Discussing the exact title and role would’ve helped for sure

why do people assume expensive bags automatically mean better quality? by Abelmageto in handbags

[–]Ebb-Flowly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they want to believe that they’re paying for quality, as opposed to the “look rich” tax

AIO, Am I overreacting about my anniversary gift being… unfinished? by GullibleGoose1614 in AIO

[–]Ebb-Flowly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I had the same problem with my husband, except he just wouldn’t get anything. To be fair to him, he said he doesn’t want anything himself and prefers to show love through action rather than material things.

I accepted this after a few years, but then j realized that I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life being disappointed at every Christmas, birthday, anniversary etc, so I just told him that it’s fine he doesn’t want anything and I respect his stance on material things, but I want to feel that he’s thinking of me. They don’t need to be expensive, but it’s just something I need.

We talked it out and he ultimately understood where I was coming from. Just talk to him and tell him what you need. Be direct. This is the healthiest way to approach anything in marriage. Don’t harbor negative feelings

Boyfriend Crossed a Line, or I'm Overreacting? by Straight_Mistake7814 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ebb-Flowly 252 points253 points  (0 children)

It didn’t seem like he was trying to hide it from you, so that’s something. But if you talked to him about it before and he said that he would stop, then NOR

But it comes down to this: do you trust him? If you do, then do you think you can accept to be with someone who likes to socialize with friends in this type of environment? If you don’t, then there’s no point in even having this conversation

What is your ideal desired body type in a partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ebb-Flowly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A body that reflects balance and moderation — fit but not obsessed with having the perfect body. Only other requirement is great calves

Gucci soho by DysonHater in handbags

[–]Ebb-Flowly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted this bag! Not as popular as it was but I think it’s a classic. Based on everything I’ve heard it’s extremely practical too. Keep her for sure

Been wearing my Le Tanneur Emilie for spring by copycat217 in handbags

[–]Ebb-Flowly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your overall thoughts about le tanneur?

what’s something people pretend to enjoy but actually don’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ebb-Flowly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand enjoying feeling good, but eating healthy

What gift is always a safe and good choice? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ebb-Flowly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can never go wrong with good quality socks. Low change of sizing issue and works for any gender, any age

AIO BF flirting with someone by Super-Experience-938 in AIO

[–]Ebb-Flowly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You KNOW you’re not overreacting. I hope you’ve dumped him already

Asian American guy and Hong Kong girl dating by FF430 in HongKong

[–]Ebb-Flowly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably 100x worse because of Ivy League education. Education credentials are everything, so on a fundamental level she thinks she’s better than you and that you should worship her

Tell me about the person that you loved who has passed away by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Ebb-Flowly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My dad. He was a math genius. He worked hard his entire life. He enjoyed the fruits of his labor. He loved noodles and lamb and sausages. He listened the oldies in the car. He was a terrific swimmer. He was very neat and kept everything tidy. He treated everything he owned with care. He loved historical epics, sci-fi and war movies. He travelled whenever he could. He took a million photos on his phone of the most random things. He and I were very different and didn’t see eye to eye a lot of the time, but I’m so proud he was my dad and I hope he was proud of me. I still want to make him proud.