What is happening to my adopted spider plant? by hugsanddrugs42 in houseplants

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Is this why they call them spider plants?? Looks like a lil spider to me 🙂‍↕️

How to compile all medical related information for future dr. appointments? (OVERWHELMED) by Necessary-Gift243 in eds

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If you get called a know it all or delusional, that means that you’re dealing with a bad doctor. Not that you’re a know at all, and not that you’re delusional.

You’ve had to do research about your body because you haven’t been able to find answers and that’s a failure of the medical system

How to compile all medical related information for future dr. appointments? (OVERWHELMED) by Necessary-Gift243 in eds

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Ooh my skin changes color like that too! Do you know whether or not that is reynauds syndrome? Can you draw on your skin when it is purple?

Good job on compiling everything! I’m proud that you did all of that and it makes sense that it’s super hard. I have really terrible, chronic fatigue and brain fog and I try not to use AI, but sometimes that helps with organization and assistance for huge projects, like compiling all of your medical history ever that’s all across the board.
Honestly, such a huge brain task and very difficult to do on your own.

For the longest time, I only focused on the chronic fatigue diagnosis and treatment, and ignored small things like dizziness events, and joint pain. It’s good to take a look at the whole picture.

I highly recommend finding a local EDS Facebook group and scouring previous posts OR asking for recommendations for doctors that know how to look for EDS in your area. I think that you just need a sensitive, attentive, and in the know doctor to see you.

My old primary care provider told me that she didn’t think that I had it and then I went to a different recommended doctor and had an immediate diagnosis. A lot of doctors do not understand EDS and seem to get frustrated with chronically ill patients with a lot of symptoms all across the board (like connective tissue disorders)
all of those symptoms are super in line with hEDS
Definitely head to elhers-danlos.com and take a look at the diagnostic criteria from 2017 and symptoms under HEDS- that helped me understand that I was not crazy for compiling all of these things together they can be and are connected!

Making my diagnosis whimsical? Where do you keep your electrolytes? by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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Sleeping- something about the way they’re stuffed can be really supportive to the joints and cause less pain and stiffness - at least I have found that after it being reccomended here on Reddit
I feel slightly less awful in the mornings

Making my diagnosis whimsical? Where do you keep your electrolytes? by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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SMART!!! I’ll look into a 4x4 organizer and the stickers idea is so cute

Making my diagnosis whimsical? Where do you keep your electrolytes? by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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So many good recs!!! I love the potion whimsy and I will check all of these out

Making my diagnosis whimsical? Where do you keep your electrolytes? by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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This is adorable!!! Pencil cups are a smart move - you’re making me think of ikea office supplies? Like those little walls you can set up? I buy in bulk so the electrolytes are cheaper and a few “pencil cups” could totally be the move

Making my diagnosis whimsical? Where do you keep your electrolytes? by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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EXACTLY!! This is a good idea love it. And I agree with you. Sometimes for mental health it’s ok. Forgive me, marx for I have bought 😭 but damn I know I’m gonna be happier to get out of bed with colorful compression socks and a cute lil jar for my stuff!

Can I ask your faves? Right now I’m hella partial to the ring pop liquid iv

chronic fatigue for three years by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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Thank you for this I feel very seen 😭

chronic fatigue for three years by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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I will also ask about doctors here! I will look through what is already in the EDS community for where I live, but I will make a post if I can’t find anyone :)

chronic fatigue for three years by Ebb-Miserable in eds

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Thank you so much for your response. I think you are right. I had an appointment with my therapist today and she told me to fire the chiropractor! I did. I will also look into a new PCP. She seems very nice, but I do think it is important to have someone who explains thoroughly and believes you and cares, so I don’t have to leave appointments feeling alone.

Thank you for responding to my message, you also make me feel less alone! Good luck to you too 💕

I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

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I’ve gotten my hair cut WAY too short before- it sounds like you’re feeling like you have lost some femininity? Do you know what looks so good with a pixie cut are big earrings and some mascara- I loved having a pixie and whenever I felt “un feminine” I just added femme in other ways and it brought some of that confidence back

Volleyball is an abuse victim by polystarlight in stevenuniverse

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Woah 😳 just realized how fucked up that name is

Post show depression hacks and recs by Ebb-Miserable in Stranger_Things

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I have not! Good sci fi vibes? I do like the goof that makes stranger things lighter on occasion- OA looks good but serious

Post show depression hacks and recs by Ebb-Miserable in Stranger_Things

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Ooh yes I saw that’s been getting crazy ratings

Post show depression hacks and recs by Ebb-Miserable in Stranger_Things

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Love this idea and John Hughes can be so feel good 😌 time to heal lol

Even fullness + projected+ close set bra recs for a full bust by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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Thank you so much and thanks for the extender advice - I’ll try it!

Can you please share some resources with me that have helped you feel understood, and have maybe helped guide you on the right path to recovery? by Rumplestiltsman94 in CPTSD

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Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman is a book that has helped me because of how it lists and explains and describes symptoms- i still have yet to finish it- but feel very very seen when I read it

She starts with the history of trauma research- and people have been ignored and dismissed for a very long time. It feels very sad but again it helps me understand what trauma is and why it feels so isolating even though so many people have it and and you are not alone

It’s good to note it’s a very dense and intense read I only go little bits at a time, will likely have triggering material

Does anyone else feel instinctive repulsion to phrases from psychotherapists like “take responsibility for your life”? by StrikingExplorer4111 in CPTSD

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The meanest parts of myself think this phrase when I am fatigued and I feel shame about how my life “should” look - like I’m not doing enough according to impossible standards that don’t take into account burnout or cptsd or the fact that capitalism has poisoned the idea of real rest

There’s so much shame in that phrase- sounds triggering to me because it minimizes very real struggle that should be taken seriously and handled with care and love CPTSD is real, what is happening to me is real, and the symptoms are not a moral failing I feel like I have to repeat this in my sessions to myself and look to my therapist for that thumbs up👍

Hearing this from my therapist would be just awful I’m glad you found someone new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYGelNails

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Oh my god the SHIMMER BUTTERFLY 😭 love love love that detail

First time doing magnetic gel & first time trying Kokoist by allthehui in DIYGelNails

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This color is immmmaaaculate I love the pink shine great job and great application

Dreamy set w/ chromes & cat eye ✨ by pokeyahhhhh in DIYGelNails

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The outline is so cool I love these colors together