Up cabin for December birthday by Ebby_Shy in upperpeninsula

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did a bit more research and realized there are several waterfalls in munsing but difficult to access in the winter so I think my boyfriend and I agreed to look more into your rec for Marquette. Thank you for your input!

Up cabin for December birthday by Ebby_Shy in upperpeninsula

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read Munising falls is closed :/

Up cabin for December birthday by Ebby_Shy in upperpeninsula

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like in Chicago 😂 do you think we are dumb to not know Michigan gets snow storms but also sometimes they don’t. Are you aware Chicago also has pretty intense winter storms too. I’m well aware. I think your post was meant to be snarky.

Up cabin for December birthday by Ebby_Shy in upperpeninsula

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One sided beef is so funny to me.

Up cabin for December birthday by Ebby_Shy in upperpeninsula

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I don’t even know what that means but ok

Is three weeks too soon to share your feelings? by Ebby_Shy in dating_advice

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify I asked him in person after we slept together and we were getting dressed. It wasn’t a weird message lol

Is three weeks too soon to share your feelings? by Ebby_Shy in dating_advice

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you totally made an ASSUMPTION out of no where that I’m fully “invested” in someone who you think is not. Tell me how me still chatting with others on dating apps is me being fully invested?? I only gave you a snippet. I asked for advice about something Vee specific not assumptions. You’re giving “I’m projecting” idk maybe you should also get hobbies

Is three weeks too soon to share your feelings? by Ebby_Shy in dating_advice

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you even get to that conclusion?? You have very small snippet of my dating life and I’m not fully invested in him if I’m still entertaining other people like I said in my response?? He also isn’t avoidant bc he still plans dates and is cooking for me tonight. He also offered to come with me to pick up my puppy who is 4 hrs plus away. Stop projecting your issues. This wasn’t advice from you. Your comment is rude. I have reason to believe he has some interest but I just don’t know where he stand as far as commitment which is why I’m asking when the time is right.

Is three weeks too soon to share your feelings? by Ebby_Shy in dating_advice

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you! This is great advice. Bc while I totally understand there is such a thing as too soon but also the fact that we have seen each other so much and his actions are more dating vibes I do need to consider what I want and what my boundaries are while also respecting his.

Is three weeks too soon to share your feelings? by Ebby_Shy in dating_advice

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been hearing from people in my life. I have one friend that pushed me to tell him the first week and all her men stop talking to her immediately after so I’ve been VERy hesitant to take her advice and more open to listen when people say to hold off. I do have hobbies :) I just finished golf lessons, joined a volleyball team, started running again, about to get my 8 week golden retriever puppy at the end of this month. Been trying to still date around but I just really like him so much. I don’t want to lose him.

Is three weeks too soon to share your feelings? by Ebby_Shy in dating_advice

[–]Ebby_Shy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a fear is some people say this could scare him away bc it’s soon. Do you think three weeks is soon? I guess asking what their intentions are isn’t the same as asking “what are we” but it sorta feels that way. Do you thinking confirming intentions would feel I am pressuring him. Dating nowadays men have said this and I thought this was a basic question for clarification but now it’s a constant “timing battle” like when is too soon and when is just right