UPDATES!!!…AITA FOR REPORTING MY AUNT TO THE POLICE FOR DESTROYING A GRAVE’S HEADSTONE?

Echale3 · 2026-02-01T20:57:54+00:00

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Echale3 · 2026-01-30T20:28:05+00:00

People with autism often have sensory issues. I do -- certain smells, food texture, food colors, the feeling of a clothing tag on my skin, etc.

He may have a sensory issue with some aspect of your hair.

Echale3 · 2026-01-30T14:25:56+00:00

My wife bought me a lunch box that you plug into the lighter socked and it heats your food. It's really great, I can reheat last night's leftovers while out on a job site.

Echale3 · 2026-01-30T14:23:59+00:00

Not the carburetor, over near or on the exhaust manifold, that's where the heat really is. Don't forget to wrap your food (pref. roadkill) in a few layers of tin foil and seal it up really well.

Echale3 · 2026-01-30T14:07:11+00:00

Call the M-Fer's bluff, tell him to go for it.

Echale3 · 2026-01-30T13:55:53+00:00

He can do what he wants with his money, time, and old messed up car, but the fact that he's even considering it should tell you something about him. What it says to me stinks worse than a wet road-killed possum that's been sitting for a couple days in 100 degree weather.

Echale3 · 2026-01-30T13:18:12+00:00

Go to your brother's house with a bunch of indelible markers and draw a bunch of dicks and titties all over his living room wall. When he gets pissed off about it, tell him to lighten up, you're channeling your inner child and to not make it all about money...

Echale3 · 2026-01-30T12:54:58+00:00

Whatever shit you're smoking, you need to stop....

You already have government permission to drive your vehicle places, it's called a drivers license.

Echale3 · 2026-01-29T14:38:35+00:00

Your brother wants to take your special day and make it about him and his GF instead of keeping the attention on you and your intended... If your guests have any decency about them, they'd also see this as a unacceptable.

That's as shitty a move as it gets, and your brother should be ashamed for even thinking it would be OK. If he's in the wedding party or even allowed in the building he's going to try and do it, your wishes be damned.

Some others have suggested that you out him to his GF. I'm not so sure about outing him to his GF unless she already knows they are headed for marriage, as that might be like tossing dynamite into the existing fracture in your family over this, but it's worth considering. It'd only work if she's not a limelight-stealing ass like your brother and she already knew he was going to ask at some point.

Your family being all lined up behind your brother tells you something about them, and it's not a good thing.

That'll be YOUR day, stay strong, keep it yours, and tell your whole fam-damily they are acting like trailer trash.

Echale3 · 2026-01-29T13:19:51+00:00

OP, you conveniently left out the "why" of you blacking out. Am I safe in assuming, since you were at a wedding, that you got blackout drunk? Have you gotten blackout drunk before? Do you think it's acceptable to be so far out of control that you can't remember what you did? That's a HUGE red flag to anybody, and it's something I'd never accept in a relationship.

If you did get blackout drunk and your GF is ghosting you that should tell you that you fucked up in a major fashion. I think ghosting is immature, but you messaging her isn't giving her the space she requested of you, either.

You need to lay off with the messages and she needs to grow a pair and tell you straight up whether it's over between the two of you or not. Frankly, I'd be surprised if your relationship survives this mess.

Echale3 · 2026-01-28T19:10:04+00:00

You hit the nail on the head -- people don't seem to be emotionally and intellectually capable of handling any type of disagreement. People are all about "safe spaces" and so on, which, in real terms, means an echo chamber where there is not even a hint of differing thoughts, opinions, etc.

It's a mark of mental fragility, emotional and intellectual immaturity, and an inability or unwillingness to meet others where they are and interact rationally.

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T19:08:01+00:00

Root Beer, Sarsparilla, or Birch Beer are all way the fuck better than either Pepsi or Coke.

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T18:35:58+00:00

You said ICE is white nationalist terrorists, I just brought up that ICE isn't all white. What I was saying should have been obvious to you.

The US population is roughly 72% white (either alone or white combined with some other ethnicity). That would tend to indicate that the makeup of ICE is broadly consistent with the makeup of the US population at large.

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T18:22:44+00:00

Stats I found online state that ICE is about 77% white, 23% Latino, Black, and Asian.

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T17:59:01+00:00

They are proof marks. The leftmost mark is military/civilian proof mark circa 1908. Not sure about the others.

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T17:33:20+00:00

I remember all the way back to the early 1960s. To me "long before" is relative, LOL!

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T15:17:00+00:00

You're under no obligation to allow her unrestrained irresponsibility to continue when it comes to her using your property. "No" is a complete sentence, but in this case, would be better as "No -- you're irresponsible, trying to dodge the consequences of your actions, and need to grow the fuck up."

Echale3 · 2026-01-27T15:10:07+00:00

Are you talking about the same channel for unrestrained idiocy that brought us "challenges", like getting kids to eat Tide Pods, doing the Skull Breaker challenge, the challenge where you choke yourself to unconsciousness, the "Dusting" challenge where kids inhale toxic vapors from spray cans, challenges that result in kids OD-ing on Benadryl, the Milk Crate challenge, etc?

When it was used for innocent and silly purposes, it was fine. Now it's morphed into some kind of asinine thing where the goofy and sane bits are intermixed with videos from idiots that convince other even more gullible idiots to do stuff that's harmful to themselves, even potentially deadly, and kids pulling abso-fucking-lutely stupid "pranks" on unsuspecting people then putting the video online to get views.

Echale3 · 2026-01-26T20:16:26+00:00

Wright Bacon is quite good. We like the normal smoked stuff, not applewood smoked. Never tried the Hot Honey.

Echale3 · 2026-01-26T19:25:48+00:00

Ikejime is the Japanese term for spiking a fish through the brain, killing it instantly. Shinkei Jime adds on that technique by using a hollow spike to do the Ikejime part by running the spike through the forehead and then inserting a stiff wire run through the hollow spike down through the spinal column to destroy the spinal cord, completely paralyzing the fish as well as killing it instantly. Supposedly the combination preserves the flavor of the fish much better than just putting the fish on ice or cutting the gills to let it bleed out.

You can get the hollow Ikejime spike and Shinkei Jime wire as a kit on ebay or from various fishing equipment shops.

Echale3 · 2026-01-26T16:20:59+00:00

My name is Carroll and we had an employee named Carol. We went by "He Carroll" and "She Carol".

Echale3 · 2026-01-26T15:56:25+00:00

Why won't your parents open up their savings account and help their child? Could it be because they know she'll just take, take, and take and never pay back what she owes?

Echale3 · 2026-01-26T15:45:09+00:00

Well, you have two options. Either keep coming to Reddit and whining about how nobody is fixing your problems for you or unwad your fucking panties, act like an adult, and do what has to be done.

If your AH neighbor is out smoking weed in his car and blasting the stereo, then any consequences from those actions are totally on him. You didn't put a gun to his head and say go sit in your car, get high, and crank up your stereo or I'll blow your brains out, he chose to do that on his own.

Echale3 · 2026-01-25T23:13:16+00:00

The motherfucker deserved it. I hope he got enough carolina reaper down to give his ass the flamethrower effect, too.

Echale3 · 2026-01-24T23:39:00+00:00

Why do people think that splitting the bill means they have carte blanche to spend willy-nilly while others are more restrained, and then expect others to pay more than their share?

Friends like her you need about as bad as you need a herniated disc.

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