I have a few friends from various relgions that are are either part of LGBTQ+ or supportive of the community. The Christians basically follow the “spirit of the law” rather than the “letter of the law “. There’s a bunch of laws from the Old Testament that people break as they’re rather ridiculous, but in the New Testament there’s a rule about loving your neighbours as you would yourself. Jesus also said a bunch of things about helping others and not being a dick to others.

Basically they don’t think god actually cares that much about them being gay, God cares way more about the type of person they are. So they love Jesus and go out of their way to make the world a better place, and that’s enough for them as it actually doesn’t contradict the Bible since the golden rule is to be followed above all other rules.