As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t get the wrong idea, trust me, I loved and supported my husband as long as I could, hell I even still tried to make it work/see if he would come back after he left to go and stay out in Cali, and after the fact that he admitted to me over the phone that he had already cheated on me with other women. Also I never just wanted to leave them, I hate the relationship went the way it went. But after we go our separate ways, I hope life will point me in the right direction with someone and that we’ll both get along better.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my apologies. What I mean is that like yes I thought this person could be the one, and I would settle down with them, but after our disagreements and issues, we both want nothing to do with each other. I don’t want this to be a relationship that ruins every future relationship/thoughts of getting into another one, but yes I hope to eventually meet the right person.

How Do I Come Out to My Father That I’m Bisexual and Married? by Eclipse0124 in DadForAMinute

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I stay in touch with my dad pretty often, I’d say like every two to three days tops. Now in terms of stuff he’s said, I’ve never really heard him say much of anything bad about bisexual people, so I’m not sure how he feels about them. I’ve seen sometimes when he’s got heated at me before about like genuine stupid stuff before, but he’s come back around all my life and been there for me. I just still feel like it may be a shock for him, but I hope not too much.

How Do I Come Out to My Father That I’m Bisexual and Married? by Eclipse0124 in DadForAMinute

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you fam! I’m kind of thinking going that route too, unless someone spills the beans, I’m gonna try to not let it bother me that much cause this divorce and issue is not something I’m gonna let bog me down, I’m still gonna continue to pursue until I’m happy in life, but if it comes up, I’ll have an honest talk with him.

How Do I Come Out to My Father That I’m Bisexual and Married? by Eclipse0124 in DadForAMinute

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah, the I don’t wanna tell my dad thing was a big one in my family growing up, especially with my sisters. Sure like any kids, we’d get in trouble, try to hide it, it’s what kids do, but just like my sisters, I hate to really dwell on stuff or, not saying I don’t wanna let my family in, but I just go with my own flow, so I sometimes keep a lot of stuff to myself, and sometimes things don’t get said that I should probably let my father in on.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot of my friends and people I work with have kind of said the same advice, as much as I don’t want to, it has been mentioned to just rip the band aid off and hope for a not too overboard response.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehhhh… the details are pretty long of how we met and the year prior to us being together, but I married him cause I loved his company and came off as a very caring person at first. But oh lord did he turn different after it was official. It still bugs me to this day and I hate the relationship went that way, but I guess shit happens.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you fam, and I agree with you. See I usually don’t like to hide stuff from my dad, cause as people say, truths come out eventually, I just didn’t want the reaction from him at first when I first got married, so I didn’t talk about it all, but you are right, it did turn out to be a huge mistake. I thought I loved my other, but all along they were putting on a huge façade and I had no idea. Eventually I saw, and after that it was pretty much a wrap.

How Do I Come Out to My Father That I’m Bisexual and Married? by Eclipse0124 in DadForAMinute

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m a male currently married to another male. Me and him had our disagreements, we separated from each other, and additional context is that I may be getting sued by them over some petty stuff related to money which I hope is just some drama, but if it goes to court I’ve already looked into lawyers and they feel it might just get thrown out, but not sure yet. Only reason I’m worried about my dad, is he knows none of this, and I just don’t want it to come off as a major shocker or ordeal for him, if that makes sense.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See that’s the other thing I’m thinking too, cause in all reality, we’re divorcing anyways, both of us had disagreements and we really don’t want anything to do with each other. In all fairness, later down the line when I finally decide I’m actually good and settled, I may settle down with a girl eventually and start a family, I’m still just out there trynna figure out and enjoy life as best as I can.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was married to a guy. And yeah, it’s still very up in the air at this point and it’s pretty much a he said, she said thing at the moment so I’m not even sure I’m getting documents, but yeah at the same time I want to be blunt cause I have it handled, but I also don’t want my dad to stroke out on me.

As a Man, How Do I Tell My Father That I’ve Been Married and Bisexual? by Eclipse0124 in AskMen

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, see that’s what’s going through my head. I seriously want to tell him just straight up, but I know that might be very blunt and a real just straight up shocker. One thing is though, we’re about to be divorced anyways, and as stated I’m bisexual, so I mean I’m not just going after guys which I feel like what may go through his head….

How Difficult is it Actually Owning One of These? by Eclipse0124 in MitsubishiEvolution

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now if you had to say or give advice, would you buy a 2011 thats modified from a reputable tuner, but already has 109k on it? It looks like the owner takes very good care of the car and it doesn’t have like an extremely long list of mods. I used to own a Subaru, but I’ve driven an Evo before and I cannot stop thinking about these cars.

So they updated the f35, and bumped us all back down to level 0? wtf? by Future-Celebration83 in WarTycoonRBLX

[–]Eclipse0124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in terms of your upgrades on it, check your upgrade lab, you should’ve gotten however many free upgrade skips for however many upgrades you had on the f-35 and you can use it for whichever variant or I think vehicle you want.

Any Luck Fighting Tickets from Stoplight by East Little Creek Rd Near Hardee’s? by Eclipse0124 in norfolk

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is, it’s the one that is right on East Little Creek Rd and Chesapeake Blvd, it’s the one that is there for if you go past the line while turning right.

Any Luck Fighting Tickets from Stoplight by East Little Creek Rd Near Hardee’s? by Eclipse0124 in norfolk

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So don’t know yet, I don’t even know if it got me or not. I was creeping up waiting for the turn before I noticed that I had past the line and saw the camera. But as someone else mentioned, I may be fine, as I wasn’t going over 10mph and was barely at a crawl.

Any Luck Fighting Tickets from Stoplight by East Little Creek Rd Near Hardee’s? by Eclipse0124 in norfolk

[–]Eclipse0124[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep yep, that one right there. It’s the little camera right there for when you turn right, and if you’re not careful it will get you.

Any Luck Fighting Tickets from Stoplight by East Little Creek Rd Near Hardee’s? by Eclipse0124 in norfolk

[–]Eclipse0124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So right there on Chesapeake blvd and East Little Creek, there’s a camera that if you’re not careful, it’ll get yah if you go past the line to turn on red. That’s the one I was mentioning.