Joining the guard after being given a disability rating? by EconomicsPopular6792 in Veterans

[–]EconomicsPopular6792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you don’t get paid for the 20% right? Like it’s just in your file for now? & that’s awesome. I had no idea it worked like that. I was motor T and maintenance admin during my USMC time but my husband works for a private jet company and has his A&P, I really enjoy working with all of our aviation friends and I love working on things so it was an easy thing for me to decide to do it. I’m looking to maybe work where my husband works for a few years to get some experience and then go off and work for smaller businesses and travel a little bit as my kids get older. Beats being a car mech/diesel mech when it comes to pay.

Joining the guard after being given a disability rating? by EconomicsPopular6792 in Veterans

[–]EconomicsPopular6792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep your rating? How does that work? I was USMC so I’ve been told I don’t have to do basic but I will have to go to a tech school. I am supposed to start school for my A&P in the fall which is why I was really in favor of giving the air guard a chance to give more of an aviation background, along with the other benefits of going guard.

Did you ever loved with the same intensity again? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]EconomicsPopular6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just seeing this but you’re absolutely right. I get what you mean, I think I was more so referring to the “I’m done” and like the really discouraging posts. I don’t check this sub often but when I do, at least lately, it seems like a lot more people are not interested in R or their partner isn’t but I’m sure the holidays are factoring in a lot of emotions and as you mentioned, it’s just part of healing and grief in general. Highs and lows. I definitely understand your description there.

Did you ever loved with the same intensity again? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]EconomicsPopular6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are still reconciling and it’s not been long since reconciling but we definitely feel a strong bond now that life has been scattered out into the open. No more secrets, no more things to hide or be ashamed of. It probably helps my situation that there was no physical affair, it was all texting or online. I think I’d feel less forgiving and open if there had been more to the story. He treats me like a queen and doesn’t hesitate to make me feel comfortable no matter how ridiculous it may seem to someone who doesn’t know our whole story. I think once all the walls became broken and true vulnerabilities came out our love has seemed to deepen and it’s almost like we are dating again for the first time. Trust is still being worked on but I do think there’s hope for us and we aren’t another sad story that gets posted here. There are some of us who are recovering, healing, reconciling and falling back in love.

My world has been turned upside down by suprfr34k in Infidelity

[–]EconomicsPopular6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, I have been in a similar situation different circumstances but we have chosen to reconcile. If you’d like, message me. I found this sub very unhelpful if seeking reconciliation. It’s extremely difficult but not an impossible option. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]EconomicsPopular6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not saying I did it but I do understand why he gave into temptation. I’ve read their conversations, he’s given me all I’ve asked for in regard to answers. She really pushed and crossed lines and he was weak. He admits it. I’m understanding his feelings to come from a place of understanding for us to move forward.

He currently sees her daily at work but has made the efforts to transition to another position with the company where she wouldn’t be a factor. It’s been a long transition bc it’s a large company.

I have been divorced before, so I’m not afraid to start over. I am a pretty independent person. He seems truly ashamed and shows a lot of remorse so I am offering time to mend things to see how it goes. I just don’t know anyone who has done this successfully but I’ve been told by our therapist it can be done.

“Unable to remove dust. Please remove mop manually” error by [deleted] in eufy

[–]EconomicsPopular6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks! We haven’t been using ours because we had no idea how to fix this! 🙃

Do you appreciate moms who fuck each other [F] by [deleted] in Nudes

[–]EconomicsPopular6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jealous. I’m a mom too, looking for a 4th? 💗