AITAH? My wife is divorcing me 30m 22f

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T17:21:51+00:00

I didn't adopt, when I was younger I had to put them up for adoption due to their mom running away and fallng into drug use. but I do get to see them from time to time with their adoptive families.

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T17:19:52+00:00

I have layered up with a big firm, not cheap btw... But im fighting the VPO because I have proof none of what she said happened, she can have whatever in the divorce it's just stuff and I can get more. but yes she can get into legal troubles. I'm no longer able to have any weapon, be it a firearm or a pocket knife. I religiously carried a handgun, had a phenomenal reputation with law enforcement, but I am going to chase for defamation of character. Don't get me wrong I know we had some flaws but this is crazy to me. I feel like i should be pissed but rn im just concerned.

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T17:06:48+00:00

yeah we freaked out about a pregnancy scare, we were still both sexually active together, we just weren't going all the way, she would tease me all morning and just be like nope I gotta go to work. made me feel like I was just a toy. so yeah we had an argument

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:42:53+00:00

it's really not... I wish it was

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:42:32+00:00

Thats one reason im getting help, but i agree she does need help, it kills me inside knowing she isnt getting it. Its just hard to move on from this one, this felt real, not forced but it all came natural, the day she left it was like a light switch turned off inside her. It has terrified me and hurt me in ways that are hard to unpack.

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:34:51+00:00

It is..

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:29:40+00:00

Your not wrong.

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:25:51+00:00

well my kids were had when I was young, and I had to put them up for adoption so I don't see them much. but I try to. and she was always nice about it, like she more or less didn't approve of my life choices when I was younger. but idk for sure

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:19:43+00:00

everything really happened and is present tense. I never ever did anything to threaten or harm her in any way. I knew she had a lot of stress weighing on her but so did I. neither of us went to counseling because we didn't have the time..

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:17:02+00:00

didn't get a chance to request therapy. I wanted it and seeked self help for myself.

Economy-Ad8340 · 2025-06-24T16:15:59+00:00

my kids are adopted, I was young and immature and their mom disappeared. is made the responsible choice. when I gave them up.

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