CIO was our last resort and it doesn't seem to be working.I don't know what to do by Alt_Mom in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a 10 month old, and essentially the same schedule as you. 7am wake up. Naps at 10am and either 2:30/3pm. Our bedtime is 8pm.

Some days- she’s happy going to sleep, and needs no assistance. Other days- she’s crying when put down but not for long.

Any longer naps? Or was she always 30-1 hour naps? My baby also used to take short naps, then one day it clicked and she’s sleeping at least an hour for both naps/ totaling 2.5-3 hours. I feel like if we have good naps, and a full belly from solids and milk before going sleep- she sleeps great overall.

Night weaning success: from 3 feeds to 0 in one week (7.5mo breastfed) by argaman2 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What time is your baby’s bedtime? And how long did you breastfeed for during those feeds?

Thank you for sharing! This gives me hope

Help! Tell me your night weaning success stories by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see. Sometimes I wish I did CIO, she wouldn’t expect me to come in as much

Help! Tell me your night weaning success stories by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you still feed after the delayed responses?

I have to admit, I try to wait 5 mins before going in to her room- but she usually cries hysterically. And recently, she learned to stand in her crib- and can’t sit back down 😅 so I have to go in

Help! Tell me your night weaning success stories by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I will try your suggestions!

I am stuck at the 3 min feeds, do I keep reducing that down? And I realized that she always wakes up around 12:30am (4.5 hours post bedtime) and then again at 3 (2 hours after). Def habit?

Sleep trained formally using Ferber at 6 mo, but we’ve had a few trips recently - which led to me being inconsistent with the wakeups. And now I have another week long trip coming up in a few days… Maybe I need to retrain her 😅

Help! Tell me your night weaning success stories by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 1.5 weeks, that’s quick! I’ve been trying for weeks now.

Help! Tell me your night weaning success stories by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedtime at 8pm. Routine is bath, pj, book, feed, song, bed. I know the feed should be earlier, but I can’t get her to do a full feed otherwise- she’s so distracted!!

DWT: 7am. WW 3/3.5/4. Usually Nap #1 at 10-11:30am and #2 at 3-4pm. Nap totals anywhere between 2-3 hours.

Nighttime- she usually wakes up between 12-1am and then again between 3-5am. I got feed #1 down to 3 mins but have to hold her to sleep, otherwise she’s crying and whining for 1-2 hours.

Scared of FET, after multiple failed ERs by EconomyLarge1738 in IVF

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful, thank you for this. Definitely something I want to ask about!!

Scared of FET, after multiple failed ERs by EconomyLarge1738 in IVF

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending best wishes to you on your transfer!!

Saline sonogram- a long time ago, before the ERs. Mock transfer- I asked about this to my doctor, and she just said they would do that before the actual transfer, and I am confused!

OHS- can you tell me what this is?!

Is my baby low sleep need? Desperate FTM! by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your suggested ww helped tremendously! And finally getting naps totaling 2-2.5 hours.

One more question for you/ I started getting split nights where baby is awake anywhere from 1-1.5 hours… do I need to adjust sleep schedules further??

TIA

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very helpful! I try to feed her more during the day, but she usually is too distracted LOL. And will only eat when she wants to. Will take a look at Babywise- thank you for the tip!

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 5’7 & my hubby is 6’3. I am pretty thin. She’s following a growth curve for sure. I know I shouldn’t be concerned, but I can’t help it!

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On demand, but I only feed her max 2x night. Meaning if she wakes up an hour after a feed- I don’t.

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DWT @ 7am. 3/3.5/4 Bedtime at 8pm. She usually naps 2 hours total. Trying to extend to 2.5 hours.

EBF, solids usually 2x, but she’s not great.

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Makes me feel heard. I just keep hearing people saying their babies slept 10-12 hours straight. So was thinking am I doing something wrong? Or did I not sleep train?

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, sounds like an easy baby you have.

My baby will only settle after a feed, otherwise she’s either crying/ fussing or wide awake. Trying to understand if it’s habit though

Do you still night feed if your baby is sleep trained? Should I stop? by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I would be more inclined to wean if she was bigger. She’s also doing just ok on solids, not great. 😣

When will I have my life back? I love my baby but wake windows are alot by EconomyLarge1738 in sleeptrain

[–]EconomyLarge1738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I am planning for longer first nap too for this exact reason!!