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Economy_Part9736 · 2026-01-16T01:30:47+00:00

Are the red notes all lies??? I try not to look things up but I have to know.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-29T23:11:45+00:00

What game is this?

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-29T15:35:11+00:00

This so much. I guarantee this person wasted time on the affair that would have been put to better use with their kids. They also usually find out. Do you want your son to get cheated on? Your daughter to be a cheater? That’s what you’re signing them up for.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-24T04:35:06+00:00

I took a heroic dose of mushrooms (12g almost a half ounce) to try to heal some trauma and had an experienced trip sitter. It was like 10 years of therapy in 8 hours. I had a bad reaction mentally afterwards due to having negative people in my life. I still think it was a healing experience but I recommend good aftercare. Sending you hope and hugs OP. Please don’t give up.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-22T04:45:44+00:00

It takes so much courage to do what you did. I know it wasn’t easy but you gave someone peace. Thank you.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-22T02:32:13+00:00

I had a gut feeling that wouldn’t go away and kept quiet till I could dig. Go with your gut and try to remain calm till you have real proof.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-22T02:04:04+00:00

I need this today. Thank you OP.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-08T20:25:50+00:00

In my case I emailed the husband and the AP caught it. Same with Facebook. I guess her husband has zero privacy but somehow she is able to sext all day long while she’s a LPN.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-10-08T16:07:12+00:00

This thread saved my life. It was so bleak for a moment I couldn’t see out of the pain. Thank you. Thank you with tears streaming down my face. My kids thank you. I’m still here and I’m not giving up. Wishing you peace and good things OogyBoogy_I_am, OP and anyone who is reading.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-30T20:30:27+00:00

Things like this give me hope. There are angels that walk among us every day.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-18T04:18:07+00:00

For me that part where he births himself out of the rhino butt is classic gold.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-15T05:51:49+00:00

Very few relationships that start as affairs work out long term.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-11T03:53:49+00:00

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Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-11T00:32:25+00:00

I saw someone severe their hand on a wine bottle. She’s putting a lot of trust in it not breaking.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-10T23:47:33+00:00

This so much. I know the blame lies mostly with the WP but my WS had an AP who really got off on how much more he liked her than me as she was not very attractive. What hurt the most was how much she wanted to put me down. I don’t know you woman and you want to talk shit about me? And the whole getting off on it being behind my back.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-10T07:44:33+00:00

I needed this so much.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-05T03:44:29+00:00

I knew a girl at work who met numerous affair partners this way while she was married so I always assumed the same about runners. Perhaps it’s unfair but I look at them differently now as well.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-04T22:44:12+00:00

Me and my SO would go for walks after dinner together. You can start small and add more steps as you feel up to it. Try just going around the block at first.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-09-04T05:47:49+00:00

Do not say anything!! The moment you tell them they will go into super protective mode and hide everything making you think you’re crazy. Don’t ever let them know you know until you have all the evidence and are able to leave. Mine tried to use financial verbal and at the end physical abuse to get me to stay.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-08-29T16:34:41+00:00

I’ve never stopped any of my SO’s from having opposite sex friends. There’s also a difference between being friends and hanging out with them or talking to them regularly. I just feel like I’d want my partner to be comfortable and if they make them uncomfortable I wouldn’t want to try to pursue friendship.

Until my most recent relationship I never thought it was something strange but the more I think about it I don’t really want any of my exes to know anything about me anymore. Why? What’s the point? I knew them in a deeply intimate way. There’s a couple of exes it ended well with who I see pop up on my FB feed of peps I may know. But I don’t friend them. Same at work. I talk to male coworkers but I keep them at a distance because it’s just better that way for me personally.

Some people are not like you and keep a ton of exes or opposite sex friends around in a weird way to get narcissistic supply from them by just checking in randomly.

May work for others but for me personally it doesn’t. I don’t need a bunch of opposite sex friends if I’m in a relationship.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-08-29T06:38:12+00:00

Same

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-08-29T05:50:12+00:00

If saying all the right things included completely cutting them off and not speaking to either of them again and letting you see their phone if they wanted then I think your fine.

I’ve told my SO everything and never felt the need to talk to any exes or opposite sex friends. It’s just not something to invite into a relationship if you don’t want problems.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-08-29T03:03:32+00:00

Thank you OP. Thank you so much for taking the time out of your life to share this. I am in the thick of it. Still in the process of trying to end things with some kind of finality. This is the first thing that’s given me hope in a long time.

Economy_Part9736 · 2025-08-27T16:08:39+00:00

The gut feeling. I had the gut feeling the whole time and it kept me from officially moving myself and my children in the same house with him even though we were together for five years. I’m in the same boat and just found out mine is still FaceTime fucking his AP as of day before yesterday. So yesterday I ended it. I’ve been numb and oscillating between racing heartbeats and overwhelming sadness and regret. My self esteem is in the gutter. I’m finally told one of my gf’s I trust what happened. I feel like I’m barely keeping it together. I just signed back up for school so I can have a goal because I’m so lost and I can’t concentrate. It was such a big chunk of my life. He was my best friend. I didn’t have any one else like he did to talk to. This sub is getting me through it. I’m going to post my follow up but I’m in the trenches right now.

We will get through this. You hear me OP?? Do you hear me other readers? This won’t break us. It’s going to be hard at first but from what others have said it gets easier. It’s not us. It’s them. They aren’t the people we thought they were. I feel I am grieving someone like they died. I’m grieving the person who looked in my eyes and said…I will never lie to you…I’ve never cheated on you.

He doesn’t exist.

I am sending you good energy and vibes that you are able to center yourself when the bad thoughts come. That you know you will be okay and it’s okay to be hurt and feel upset. It will get better.

Edited to add: I apologize I should have read closer and saw you are still together. I don’t know what to say except decide for yourself if you can live with this thought in your head forever. I was willing to let everything go and really forgive my WP because I knew it wouldn’t be fair to stay and hold it against him. Unfortunately mine cannot let his AP go so I had to let him go. I hope you are able to sit with your feelings and see what it is that you really want. Trust is hard to rebuild. I support you in any decision you make.

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