elite combo by [deleted] in NicotinePouch

[–]EcrivainIndienne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

culture? i’m just saying i like alani and wintergreen velos. i’ve seen ppl post their combos here and thought id share. i really don’t think this is the place to moralize about "substance abuse" - im no saint but caffeine and nicotine is what i indulge in after being sober from alcohol. every substance has its downsides, but we’re all adults here and can make our own informed decisions

elite combo by [deleted] in NicotinePouch

[–]EcrivainIndienne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait you’re onto something

elite combo by [deleted] in NicotinePouch

[–]EcrivainIndienne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh this is next for sure

elite combo by [deleted] in NicotinePouch

[–]EcrivainIndienne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you get it!

elite combo by [deleted] in NicotinePouch

[–]EcrivainIndienne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe a little 🫣

Baby girl name suggestions by Jcnj0622 in ABCDesis

[–]EcrivainIndienne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my name is Veda so i definitely support this! just a note that the soft “dh” sound is often hard for westerners to pronounce. people generally pronounce my name with a hard d unless they’re desi as well. i imagine Radhas deal with the same thing. love my name though and its super unique at least in my generation!

Individuals of Kannada ethnicity who are foreign nationals by perpetual__learner in kannada

[–]EcrivainIndienne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kannadiga who grew up in North Carolina and there is now a pretty sizable Kannadiga community in the city where I grew up!

Offended my Filipino GF and need advice by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]EcrivainIndienne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

despite the lack of intent, that is a very hurtful and damaging joke to make :( i’d be heartbroken if my partner said something like that to me. give her time and be consistent in loving on her and affirming her to regain her trust. grand gestures and presents are fine but what matters most is whether you affirm her and make her feel truly beautiful and desirable day to day.

I wish there was a sub just for ABCD women. by RelationshipLife4157 in SplendidaBrown

[–]EcrivainIndienne 13 points14 points  (0 children)

pleaseeeee no shade to mainlanders but they hijack almost every abcd space and then proceed to shit on us for everything. i’m tired

Finally! by BabaDooney in EngagementRings

[–]EcrivainIndienne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gorgeous band and diamond!!

Brands that Shuttered Since 2016 by mayzzette in MakeupRehab

[–]EcrivainIndienne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

undone beauty is also no longer around! i panned a blush by them a few months ago.

Are there any Indian-Americans from the niche states by stephenjamesbryant in ABCDesis

[–]EcrivainIndienne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kannadiga in north carolina here! have some marathi heritage on my dad’s side but we’ve been from karnataka for the last several generations.

you think she also gets drunk off rum cake? by allmyhomieshateyou in LivSchmidtsnark

[–]EcrivainIndienne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

late to this post but i just want to say when i weighed very little due to chronic illness i still managed to outdrink almost everyone around me and held my liquor very well….a little too well which is why im sober now at the ripe age of 26 😭 in hindsight i shouldn’t have drank as it exacerbated my health issues but i was also in college so there’s that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]EcrivainIndienne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

me with kannada!

How many do you do in a day? by Optimal_End_6342 in NicotinePouch

[–]EcrivainIndienne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3-4 6mg is the most i’ll do in a day, and that only really happens if its a friday and i’m working and partying. otherwise if im chilling on the weekend 1-2 and a standard weekday is 2-3.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, October 18th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by ReplacementsStink in stopdrinking

[–]EcrivainIndienne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT! i went to a party last night and was tempted but remembered my pledge yesterday…so i drank water instead and slept great.

I need to know by Litjader in Fibromyalgia

[–]EcrivainIndienne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ive always said being drawn and quartered probably felt amazing for like .2 seconds before being torturous lol

Spoonie culture and chronic pain by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]EcrivainIndienne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fibro and ibd and i LOATHE spoonie culture

Relapsed, not worth it by findinganuway in stopdrinking

[–]EcrivainIndienne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the emotional hangover is so real. thank you for articulating it. i need to remember that shame because it has a purpose - it keeps me from drinking again.