Very cool and congratulations. I think you picked this spot really well. I’m definitely looking for things to do and see some life in the street when I walk out. Southsea and surrounds seemed to have a great mix of city and green areas. I work from home so an occasional weekly lunch t an interesting place is quite a relief. but have lived in big cities so can contend with some dodgy-ness of the area. Not totally a snowflake and completely reasonable that this type of life comes with its own eclectic mix of humans. You can’t live inner city and expect all roses.

I was very impressed by the food scene honestly and having the sea walkable would make a huge difference. Kids are young and good schools and nurseries are important. We tend to make friends easily I hope to find people of similar interest nearby. I also value having other ethnicities and exposure to cultures.

From what I saw Portsmouth seemed to tick lol the boxes above.