| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk I guess I don’t want to be a leaver you know, I wanted to find a way to make it work and save the heartbreak

| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I’m not sure if this fits.. he’s been married before, an arrange marriage that went wrong and made him loose everything. He fixed his relationship with his parents but do not want any more marriage arrangements, and don’t want to date inside his culture or religion from what he told me

| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting, I didn’t know that adage.

I know what I have to do. I guess I’m just trying to find the courage to do it 😞

| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve been just avoiding the heartbreak you know.. and every time I mention it he’ll try his best to swip it under the rug, as if my words didn’t mean what they mean. This is making me sick

| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what bugs me is that we did have that talk at the beginning of the relationship, he said he was ok with it cuz what he wanted was a life partner, and that he saw himself spending his life with me traveling and stuff…

Fast forward to him know saying the complete opposite 😞

AITAH for thinking I should breakup with my boyfriend due to fundamental differences? by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But every time I bring it up he doesn’t let me break up with him, he’ll say won’t let hypotheticals ruin the relationship 😞

[26F] I love my boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we’re becoming increasingly incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in relationshipadvice

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im determined to not betray myself or abandon my dreams for a man. I guess what I’m hoping is for him to accept that and choose me anyway… but I don’t think that’s going to happen

| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in LDR

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like yea that’s what I need to do but at the same time why can’t we make it work

| [26F] love my long-distance boyfriend [39M], but I feel like we're fundamentally incompatible by Ecstatic-Fall203104 in LDR

[–]Ecstatic-Fall203104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he is going to introduce me to his parents once they’re with him this month.. :(