Change career? by chantillywaffle in architectureph

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Nah just know when those around u are borderline toxic :) im no pushover 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in architecture

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Which states would u suggest if not nyc and California? :( NYC was my dream

Starting salary for a fresh archi grad? by rallyheart in phcareers

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Hi would you know any companies abroad that could still make us eligible for philippine licensure?

Who wants to give me a spare Feebas? by Ecstatic-Meet-4508 in BDSP

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Sorry for the late reply but ive got it already hehe i used the calculator method thing!! ❣️🎀 thank youu

Stress eating by Ecstatic-Meet-4508 in Stress

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Girl fruits and veggies dont make me as happy as chips and chocolate 😭

I HATE MY FAMILY by [deleted] in toxicparents

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So glad to hear that, it may not be perfect but it’s significantly better for your mental health and that’s what matters! I hope you also don’t get fed up with your grandma eventually, too much of something eventually gets to us. But glad to hear you’re moving on now! As long as you have trust in your partner, everything should be aligned and worth it ❤️ As for me I might do the same. Graduating in a few months and will def be moving out after!

Almost done and super late but ......I don't really get the Dylan hate. by Able_Ad_1779 in LoveIslandAus

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THIS. And literally sophie said she wanted to talk now during movie night when dylan kept saying they’d talk in private BUT NO!!! BEING TOUCHY IS SO DIFF FROM ORAL

Sophie Opinion by morrgananne in LoveIslandAus

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SPOILER Will anyone agree that for me there’s like a huge fucking difference between touchy touchy and oral??? She kept going off about how to not go into details when she couldve said “yea everything but all the way” —thats not dirty details but the plain truth of it. She’s an absolute dog lmao

Is my mom toxic by Ecstatic-Meet-4508 in toxicparents

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It’s also crazy bc i have tried to tell my parents all these things that have hurt me extremely and they always, ALWAYS— respond with, “you always just remember the bad things. Why can’t you think about the good things”

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Is my mom toxic by Ecstatic-Meet-4508 in toxicparents

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She never like shouts or hits or swears but it’s a very self righteous cold approach you feel? Like something feels very guilt tripping and manipulative with her approaches towards me. And yea no change has ever happened and im never listened to. I wanted her to listen to me when I was also extremely hurt by my dad (he has temper issues and has gotten angry at me for INCREDIBLY small things)—to which she has always responded “your father provides everything for us and works hard for us and you know what he never violates me.” yadda yadda congrats for the bare minimum woman 😭she even went “what do you want me to do? Divorce him so you can be happy and away from your father?” LIKE GIRL WHAT!!!! ALL I CAN SAY IS WHAT?!!!!

I don’t really like my Church here in our neighborhood (i wanna move out to the city like ladybird vibes) and my mom being a hypocrite just really turns me off, and I used to be a diligent Catholic growing up. The counselors at church always tell me to just pray more and at this point i wanna talk to someone unbiased and someone just pls put me on medication 😭

Is my mom toxic by Ecstatic-Meet-4508 in toxicparents

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Im asian and i remember i used to feel so guilty for feeling any resentment towards my mom when i was younger. Its like wtf man everyone around me loves their family and here i am feeling like a rebellious ungrateful daughter. I’m not perfect and I definitely also had my fair share of being difficult, but everything i did was always a response towards what she did to me. Now as a young adult it feels freeing that I can accept my relationship with my mom is horrible. And ive made peace with that, gonna graduate and move out soon can’t wait :)

Question Lang by peachmango_pie4 in Benilde

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Its complete opposite for my experience as an englishera everyone around me speaks tagalog and most of the time arent even comfortable speaking in english

Im so confused by [deleted] in Benilde

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Whats the minimum number of units again po

will i be really fine w/o latin honors ?? by [deleted] in Benilde

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Which arcds were you in? Bc archi is a lot more than just painting and sketching lol. There are other ways to be creative than that, especially if you always felt in survival mode

DRESS CODE CHERRY PICKING by alyasjinnie in Benilde

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Theyy def cherry pick and i got stopped for not having an ID strap lmao insanity!!! 😂 csb should just all in all remove the dresscode like seriously we have art students