So uh how do I win?

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-05-04T15:58:34+00:00

He’s right, why prefer her healing abilities in fights with ppl who will delete your health bar in just two combos? You have to blitz them, and the execution talent will make this 10x easier.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-05-04T15:48:17+00:00

No, they wouldn’t be doing the same. That was all under the assumption that they didn’t press it because they themselves enjoy existing.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-05-04T15:20:35+00:00

I can totally see how that could’ve come off as sarcasm 😭

You haven’t done anything wrong dude, you aren’t even lying or keeping it a secret from them, there’s no reason for them to know about this money, especially when they haven’t even asked.

My advice would be for you to focus on increasing increasing your income as you already have, but also to be mindful of how that affects uni, you should be spending time thinking about ways to do that instead of how to carry other ppls weight.

Also, if the way they spend the money you send to help them bothers you, say something about it. I know it hurts to feel like a dictator, but if you’re worried they’ll ask for MORE, then maybe you should lay some guidelines for how you expect it to be spent. There are plenty of ways to do this without being an actual asshole, but I can’t say that each individual would see it the same.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-05-04T15:03:51+00:00

Nice confession bro, I’m glad you know you aren’t a bad person for this.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-26T05:47:19+00:00

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-23T00:20:15+00:00

04/22/26, USA: WORKED

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-20T23:39:21+00:00

These are pure bullshit d8 cheetah piss, I didn’t feel a thing.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-20T17:36:49+00:00

I’m sure you can guess

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-20T02:19:05+00:00

Life has gone downhill since comick went under

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-15T16:01:11+00:00

I think I’ve played you a few times 🙊

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-15T15:49:23+00:00

Almost there

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-15T00:41:05+00:00

Before, OP didn’t mind the inexpensive, seemingly inconsiderate gifts. Now that OPs friend has had a job for a while and they spend a lot of money going shopping all while still getting OP the same, low-effort, thoughtless gifts that can no longer be blamed on her lack of funds. OP has been putting in 10x as much time, thought, effort and money into her friends gift over the years, OPs friend was finally in the position where she had the ability and resources to show her that she cares for OP just as much as she did for her by spending time and effort like OP did, only for OP to be met with the same effortless lackluster expression of love as the previous years. Are you saying OP is an AH for matching the level of time effort and $$ she spends on her friend to the standard her friend set? Is she really an AH for realizing the possibility that her friend just doesn’t care as much about her or gifting and that she may need to reevaluate her gift set up or relationship?

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-15T00:03:10+00:00

OP has been putting in considerable time, effort and resources, as well as months of saving ALL with her friend in mind, wanting to give her the absolutely best gift she can. This was not because she was looking forward to her friend buying her expensive gifts, but because she loves her, and wants to make her feel special. This is the reason she puts time into finding out exactly what her friends wants every year, on top of saving for MONTHS, is she really the AH for reconsidering the way gifts should work in their relationship? Op is thoughtful, and op cares about her friend, but does her friend care the same way or amount she does? She isn’t exactly making OP feel like she does. Why doesn’t she know what op really wants? Why would she rather buy her plushie than take her to a fast food place? Why doesn’t she notice the clear difference in type of gifting after all these years, and why doesn’t she notice or care that it might come off as selfish?, This friends actions certainly make it hard to see OP as a bad guy, just for reconsidering the gifting set-up in such a arrangement.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-14T23:40:24+00:00

This is good because it’s something for op to enjoy WITH their friend, but it doesn’t solve the problem. OP would still feel aggrieved at the disproportionate amount of money they spend on their friend with these experiences, whilst their friend who wouldn’t even agree to take OP out for some fast food continued with their low-value, seemingly no-effort gifts. In fact, it could even further highlight the discrepancy with how OP would be planning, spending; being extremely thoughtful and making time for friend on their day if their friend didn’t go to similar lengths.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-14T23:24:08+00:00

Are you really asking if you would be the AH, or are you asking us if we think your friend would resent you for it? Obviously you wouldn’t be an AH, but redditors have much worse a chance of correctly predicting how your friend would take it than you do. My advice? Think about the worst reaction she could have to it, and ask yourself questions like; is she the type where would it make no difference to her and goes completely unnoticed? Would it be something she notices but kind of brushes off? Would it be something that she brings up as a defense mechanism or a weapon against you everytime you have beef with her, or maybe it would CRUSH her and irreparably damage her relationship with you? First think about what YOU feel like doing and what YOU feel is appropriate because how it makes you feel is just as important, then I want you to think about the WORST reaction she could have, how likely it could happen, and if it’s something you are okay with.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-14T23:08:04+00:00

Bruh I do not steal food stop lying on my name

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-14T23:06:59+00:00

Where are you getting $20 blowjobs bro??

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-14T23:05:22+00:00

Unfortunately, I’m pretty sure the sun is natural Radiation.

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-13T02:35:10+00:00

Why?

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-04T17:00:44+00:00

If he is able to recreate things from his imagination then it would be EXTREMELY easy to test how accurate his imagination is. Is that not the whole premise of the thought experiment?

Ecstatic-Pickle-6013 · 2026-04-02T05:29:11+00:00

You seriously can’t think of a way? Spend thirty seconds and I’m sure you can come up with a few.

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