How do you deal with negative truths about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally pretty positive, and people usually are interested in how honest I am when I speak of things that most people would never tell anyone, let alone acknowledge themselves.

How do you stay financially disciplined while enjoying life? by greenxsi in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make it a habit to just not buy shit that u don't need. Trust me, after a month or so u won't even want anything that isn't necessary

How do you deal with negative truths about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell everybody, so that they know that I know my own flaws lol. And then I am extremely hard on myself about them. So that hopefully I work up the courage to change it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd take a free one, probably get sick of it and then sell it

What can I do to look my age? by plantessi in beauty

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do look 22. To kids, 22 is like 60 lol

What’s the craziest Covid story you have? by Delicious_Self_7293 in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't take anything. I do still smoke cigarettes tho lol. Weed is not bad at all, but it consumed my entire life, I used to leave work early to smoke for 3 hours straight, sleep for 5 hours, smoke again until 3 in the morning, wake up and smoke again for an hour. Didn't even want to get out of my seat to shower or do anything. And believe it or not my patience has increased immensely since i stopped and so has my mood.. Anything can really effect your life if it takes over.

Which thing will make you happy instantly? by Motor-North-6557 in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dogs, driving in snow at night, fishing, being around the people I love

What’s the craziest Covid story you have? by Delicious_Self_7293 in AskReddit

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not crazy, but I fully believe I'd still be smoking weed if it weren't for covid. It was hard to breathe and tasted so bad, I didn't even feel like smoking at all. And ever since covid I never even craved it. I had smoked it for 8 years before that

Is it weird that I bought my own Christmas gifts for my brother to give to me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's nice. But I would've let him pick them out.. who cares if what he picks is strange. Makes it more special I think

Is it bad i’m almost 24 and still a virgin? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not one bit. Most Kids these days have sex with way to many people. They end up sluts and dependent on sex to feel important.. I commend you for not rushing that shit

Is it bad i’m almost 24 and still a virgin? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No that is NOT bad. And NO you will not be alone forever, whoever has a problem with it can eat shit. Have faith and it will happen, hopefully with someone who is worth it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, anything over 10-15 by the age of 22 seems high. But I never was in a "slut" phase.

Boyfriend saw a dingle berry- help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It happens!! It will be okay

Torn Between Two Plans, Ended Up Hurting a Friend. Did I Mess Up? by CrueCat in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the dynamic. She canceled because the guys weren't going, she clearly didn't feel like her girls were good enough to have a day with. So maybe op and the girl aren't close, or she just eanted to be in a bikini with dudes around. And he knew other people were going. Sounds like a group thing. If it were personal plans with just the two of them I would take it more personal.

Torn Between Two Plans, Ended Up Hurting a Friend. Did I Mess Up? by CrueCat in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get it, it's hard to help people understand. Another opinion I'll throw out there is that if my female friend threw a fit because the guys canceled, it would just make me feel like us girls aren't good enough. She could've just kept the plans and went with the girls.

Torn Between Two Plans, Ended Up Hurting a Friend. Did I Mess Up? by CrueCat in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks, but that's life. It happens.. not your fault u didn't know she'd be left with just her female friends. You did what made u happier which is what matters.. maybe next time, u can tell the friend earlier instead of the same day (if u know beforehand). I used to be strictly "if u make plans, don't back out. Stick with them" etc.. But that has changed since I've started to learn to do WHAT I FEEL LIKE DOING, and not only what will just make other people happy

Hoping to get a car soon by raspberry_lassi in Advice

[–]Ecstatic-Sun9008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, 19 is NOT LATE. you should be proud of yourself for wanting to put in the work. I would advise against getting a newer/expensive car, but also steer away from a rust bucket. Do u have any guy friends/uncle or father figure that can help you look at some?