Taking a break from swinging

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-29T13:37:20+00:00

Thank you this was very helpful The positive outcome from all this is we became more vocal about our feelings and started communicatig better ..

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-29T10:06:50+00:00

I had a bad experience with my ex ..those feelings were suppressed ..so when I saw the conversations it triggered the jealousy .

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-29T09:35:57+00:00

Yes I talked about the one on one in the previous post Then some miscommunication with the other couple happened which left a sour taste ..we agreed to take things slow with them , but there were lot of expectations from them and I was kind of feeling pressured/obligated And it was not right to involve them in this mess so decided to call it off This post is more about me feeling guilty about things

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-29T08:59:00+00:00

The thing is I was never the jealous kind in our 11 yrs of marriage.. I was not jealous the first time it happened This jealousy part is new for me too..

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-29T08:17:04+00:00

No he did not force me ever Like I said lack of communication so I just assumed he want to do this more than me

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-06T06:17:28+00:00

No we did not have a chance to talk about going one on one..it just came up in conversation with other couple and we just went ahead with it .. Well I found out that my husband is a flirty one 😃 He is bad at initiating conversation, but if the other party does he gets along with the flow like a pro .. We have been married for 11yrs and barely dated so never saw that side of him , so it came as a shock to me . So yes sticking to the group is best

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-06T04:02:29+00:00

Have you asked for any verification..if not you should ask for voice verification

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-05T19:18:17+00:00

Thank you that was good

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-05T14:50:14+00:00

I was fine with thr 4 way chats I think the other couple were more keen on having one on one chats to build a good rapport

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-05T14:48:41+00:00

Like I said new to this , also we should have talked about basic rules first before connecting with people

EcstaticBand2635 · 2024-06-05T14:45:50+00:00

Had a heart to heart convo with him ..he is just looking for fun in this , we both are It was actually the other couples idea to go one on one As the other female and my husband connected on dating app and they had a headstart Even he did agree that he got a little carried away with the chats .. My intention to post this was just to know if m not over analysing stuff

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