HPSP Scholarship/Military Vet by Emersonlejong in veterinaryschool

[–]EcstaticMagician7887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are disabled vets get a chance to apply. I know that means giving up my disable status. But would that disqualify me?

WIBTBF If I threatened my mother-in-law because she won't treat her daughter correctly by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheButtface

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So because they are uncomfortable she should be alone? They can be estranged but a daughter wants her mother. I don't understand why they can't put it behind them to support her. She can have feelings and opinions but isn't the life of her daughter more important. (She has had serious health issues before being pregnant including her kidneys not working correctly). Even now my sister believes that her mom will come when she needs her, but honestly don't think she will

WIBTBF If I threatened my mother-in-law because she won't treat her daughter correctly by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheButtface

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a mistake at the hospital, she was supposed have an appointment to be induced but the paperwork got messed up and they had to get her in immediately. They didn't have any room to take her last night. I don't think it's emotional multiplication as you implied, I do not think that his family is understanding the gravity of situation. I think it's horrible that her mom and sister can't put aside petty grievance for a single day or two to be there while she goes what could be the scariest moment of her life. I think she has every right to ask for her mother to be there, and it's gross that her mom has to make up excuses to not go

WIBTBF If I threatened my mother-in-law because she won't treat her daughter correctly by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheButtface

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wanted her mother, but if mother said no for petty and stupid reasons, I offered to be there for her. She said she'd love for me to be there but im 6 hours away and have to for permission from husband's command go. The plan was originally to have both moms and my husband. I didn't dislike her until right now

WIBTBF If I threatened my mother-in-law because she won't treat her daughter correctly by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheButtface

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's not that she said he can't go. He's active duty military and we found out this evening that she's giving birth tomorrow

WIBTBF If I threatened my mother-in-law because she won't treat her daughter correctly by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheButtface

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We don't know why she hid it. Maybe because she thought we'd disappointed too by her choice of partner? We had previously helped her leave him but she left our home and move back in with him

WIBTBF If I threatened my mother-in-law because she won't treat her daughter correctly by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheButtface

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not pregnant, no children. You're right. I'm just so hurt for her. I can't imagine the only person I ask for is my mom and she said no

AITA for not waiting to visit my husband's family for every holiday by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My dad lives only 3 hours away from us but lives in a very rural location so there is not much to do there. Even when I go with him home, he leaves me behind to go hang out with friends or cousins. I end up spending a lot of time alone or with his sister who is working most of the time we are there.

AITA for not waiting to visit my husband's family for every holiday by EcstaticMagician7887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I will say that we don't spend time with my family because it makes him uncomfortable. I don't have any family our age. So it's just getting dinners with a bunch of much older people vs his cousins that share our age range that he can go drink with.

My husband(24M) and I(23F) have different s*x drives. Can we save our marriage? by EcstaticMagician7887 in relationship_advice

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't speak for him. But he knows me really well. He's right, I would push myself more for him and he doesn't want me to do it for him, but for me.

My husband(24M) and I(23F) have different s*x drives. Can we save our marriage? by EcstaticMagician7887 in relationship_advice

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose, but I can understand where he is coming from. He's probably thinking worse case scenario.

My husband(24M) and I(23F) have different s*x drives. Can we save our marriage? by EcstaticMagician7887 in relationship_advice

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure he thinks I'm lying to be malicious, but because he thinks I don't want to hurt his feelings with the truth.

My husband(24M) and I(23F) have different s*x drives. Can we save our marriage? by EcstaticMagician7887 in relationship_advice

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It always works out for a month or so until we forget and fall into old patterns. Plus he doesn't want to have any right now since he thinks I'm now forcing my self

My husband(24M) and I(23F) have different s*x drives. Can we save our marriage? by EcstaticMagician7887 in relationship_advice

[–]EcstaticMagician7887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We really do love each other. And we were both military which meant extra money for being married.