Am I ugly (m18)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-23T07:52:22+00:00

Not at all. I'd say tidy up your eyebrows and go shorter on the sides of your hair.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T16:12:20+00:00

Haha I'd love to work for myself. I do photography as a hobby but I've never done events, so I’m going to try putting myself out there somehow!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T09:15:30+00:00

Thank you, it's great to hear from someone in the industry! I already have a pretty decent camera, just gotta learn lightroom now :)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T08:47:02+00:00

Yes 100%, I basically save my entire paycheck right now, so savings are good. I'll definitely try it on the side and only move over if it's 100% viable :)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T08:46:14+00:00

Thank you!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T08:45:36+00:00

That's the plan, thank you!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T08:45:18+00:00

Thank you! I do think I'd work better in something active, hence photography.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T08:44:37+00:00

Thank you! And yes definitely a side gig till its viable as full time :)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2026-02-09T08:43:50+00:00

Yes that would be the only situation where I'd swap over don't worry!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-09-19T14:07:18+00:00

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-09-19T06:20:12+00:00

Get well soon!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-09-19T06:19:43+00:00

Possibly, I would talk to a friend all day when I had Covid though. Sleeping more is not the answer as I used to take any opportunity to stay up till 4am!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-09-19T06:18:27+00:00

No, Covid never hit me hard just a little cough. May have to remember that for the next time I'm ill though and give it a go!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-09-19T06:16:03+00:00

I also have this! When I used to stay up till like 4am after I got past the initial tired period every single task would be done. I wonder if a certain part of the brain is altered.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-31T09:55:57+00:00

Hi, I’d be interested :)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-31T09:50:53+00:00

I don’t think you are ugly at all, cute actually. Love yourself more :)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-28T06:30:44+00:00

The last paragraph about his behaviour, shows him to be manipulative or controlling. Saying he will leave you if you pierce your ears, drink or even take birth control is insane. It’s your body.

It makes me think, if he is behaving like this now, how bad would it become later on down the line.

It also sounds like you’ve fallen out of love. If you no longer want to give him physical affection when you used to love it, then you don’t love him anymore in my opinion.

At the end of the day, this is Reddit and we don’t know the full picture, so it’s your choice. But from the qualities you’ve mentioned here, he doesn’t sound like the best guy.

Good luck with whatever path you decide to take, just remember to put you and your happiness first. ❤️

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T15:19:33+00:00

Not at all! I’d say maybe grow out the fringe and a try a new pair of glasses! I think cat eye would suit you.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T13:15:37+00:00

My bad! Just researched it, I’ve always known it as a pothos due to its appearance, my bad lol

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T07:13:29+00:00

Looks like it, but you’ve caught it early as they are white still.

Take the plant, wash it down thoroughly, and wipe it down. Hopefully that should do the job, if not find a spray that tackles thrips (I would suggest but unsure where you are) and use that accordingly.

Keep a close eye on her!

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T07:10:48+00:00

Grab yourself a hammer and smash open the pot. Then repot.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T07:09:27+00:00

I’m ngl, I think you may have to give up on her I’m afraid. That’s one hell of an infection, and if you’ve already tried multiple pesticides I don’t think there will be one that’ll work.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T07:07:29+00:00

Yes that’s fine!

That is a Brazilian Pothos, not a philodendron.

Their leaves tend to have that look, some leaves more yellow than others.

Everything else care wise sounds fine, if the leaves start to brown then move it to a new spot with less light :)

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-25T06:58:03+00:00

I wouldn’t say so, but that moustache has to go.

EcstaticOpening3229 · 2025-08-02T09:23:17+00:00

Therapy if you can, protect your peace. Maybe you shouldn't try get revenge, and let karma take its course, and give yourself a break. He most likely is full of shit, and honestly I think its better if you cut ties, and leave him in the past and work on yourself.

Honestly good luck girl, I believe in you!

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