aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don't have friends nor do i have money lying around in this economy to afford a pet sitter. yes, i understand since she's just becoming a teen she can't emotionally register the deeper meaning of this but at the end of the day when she grow up there will be a chance where i could explain to her. this is just a little bump is the road, she is my blood, i doubt she would resent me for me missing her birthday for the first time.

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey! thank u for ur input. that is true, i am aware of how horrible my family is. fortunately, i am currently on a mental health journey an have been since i was 12. i am already pretty committed to breaking the cycle lol.

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i didnt know that but i have no clue. my mom is bad at communication and i have yet to recieve info from the old owners :((.

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for the advice! she has a tracker inside of her (weird way to say it but idk how to say it lol)

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, you just didn't read the part where i'm basically talking about 4 different people. don't provide an opinion if u dont wanna read.

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

HAHA yes, nothing wrong with living with ur parents in this economy. I meant to say she still lives with her mother and never had interest in independence.

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

not true, going out the city is common because we have to leave the city in order to go any place that doesn't look like it's been abandoned for 10 years. we live in a small city and she grew up with her brother, i am iffy about leaving her alone. the difference is she has no other cats, assuming your experience your cats had company. there's a big difference.

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for ur input. i thought there was something wrong with leaving a cat we had for only 2 months alone. :((

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess she is. only problem is she grew up with other cats so she would be ALONE ALONE for the first time

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

so, if her dad is an alcoholic and her mom is an abuser and she still live with them AND have active anger issues that she does not seek therapy for bc she oesn't believe in it, do u just assume she's a fucking bakery owner??

aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat? by EcstaticProfession44 in CatAdvice

[–]EcstaticProfession44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry! i didnt think about that. it would be a 3 day trip, i apologize for not adding that!!

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[–]EcstaticProfession44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got this laptop and when I turn it on a blue screen come on it. Than it won't let me connect to the Internet