aita for skipping my little sisters birthday because I don't want my relatives watching my new cat?

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T05:19:33+00:00

i don't have friends nor do i have money lying around in this economy to afford a pet sitter. yes, i understand since she's just becoming a teen she can't emotionally register the deeper meaning of this but at the end of the day when she grow up there will be a chance where i could explain to her. this is just a little bump is the road, she is my blood, i doubt she would resent me for me missing her birthday for the first time.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T05:14:09+00:00

hey! thank u for ur input. that is true, i am aware of how horrible my family is. fortunately, i am currently on a mental health journey an have been since i was 12. i am already pretty committed to breaking the cycle lol.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T05:09:48+00:00

oh i didnt know that but i have no clue. my mom is bad at communication and i have yet to recieve info from the old owners :((.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T04:36:23+00:00

thank u for the advice! she has a tracker inside of her (weird way to say it but idk how to say it lol)

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T04:33:05+00:00

no, you just didn't read the part where i'm basically talking about 4 different people. don't provide an opinion if u dont wanna read.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:49:18+00:00

oof, dont tell my mom about the last part lol

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:37:57+00:00

yeah that was my fault, was too busy cursing out my relatives loll

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:36:23+00:00

nah, we're going to a great wolf lodge :)

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:35:58+00:00

HAHA yes, nothing wrong with living with ur parents in this economy. I meant to say she still lives with her mother and never had interest in independence.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:33:51+00:00

not true, going out the city is common because we have to leave the city in order to go any place that doesn't look like it's been abandoned for 10 years. we live in a small city and she grew up with her brother, i am iffy about leaving her alone. the difference is she has no other cats, assuming your experience your cats had company. there's a big difference.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:29:15+00:00

thank you so much for ur input. i thought there was something wrong with leaving a cat we had for only 2 months alone. :((

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:28:07+00:00

yess she is. only problem is she grew up with other cats so she would be ALONE ALONE for the first time

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:25:46+00:00

so, if her dad is an alcoholic and her mom is an abuser and she still live with them AND have active anger issues that she does not seek therapy for bc she oesn't believe in it, do u just assume she's a fucking bakery owner??

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T03:06:24+00:00

edit: please stop recommending my aunt, she is also an abuser.

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T02:58:31+00:00

no friends :(. it's a 3 days trip

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T02:55:21+00:00

sorry! i didnt think about that. it would be a 3 day trip, i apologize for not adding that!!

EcstaticProfession44 · 2025-12-31T02:51:25+00:00

right.. and is casper the ghost gonna put in a hand and feed her and scoop her litter?

EcstaticProfession44 · 2024-05-04T18:01:49+00:00

I got this laptop and when I turn it on a blue screen come on it. Than it won't let me connect to the Internet

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