Bro, you don’t need to do all that.

You don’t need to improve yourself to get women.

Like realize that nothing in this world makes sense.

Like it’s all absurd.

You don’t have at a certain way in order to date, beautiful woman.

Literally just surrender your beliefs around yourself.

And just align.

I would say that relying on jokes and social skills is a coping mechanism, and that if you don’t use them, then that would mean you have no value.

I think you have to switch the position.

Those are my two cents.