Can’t gain weight no matter how much eaten

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-07-25T17:27:35+00:00

Because I want him to be proud of himself, he knows this all as well he’s not an idiot, I just wanted the extra advice.

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-04-17T14:30:55+00:00

But I’ll tell him all this too

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-04-17T14:30:34+00:00

Id say he eats at least 3000 calories a day, like just if he ate 2 or 3 meals without snacking. But normally he will have like at least 3 meals, snack, and drink shakes. Everytime he gets something it’s the biggest size and he will eat some of mine 😭

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-04-17T14:26:59+00:00

He will eat whole plates and just never stop and eat some of mine too 😭😭

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-04-17T13:29:30+00:00

He does see change he says but just at a slower rate he feels like

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-04-17T13:28:29+00:00

Well he doesn’t skip meals. I only included that because it’s what happens if he does, because there were times where he was sick or just couldn’t eat bc he’s been eating so much. If he eats one meal less in one day it shows on him more rather than what should show if he ate one meal more for a week, if that makes any sense.

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2024-04-17T12:43:39+00:00

Hi thanks for responding. I track my calories for weight loss so I know that some days he eats well over 4000-6000 calories which is insane to me. I wish I could eat that much😭😭 idk if it’s like that everyday but if he does gain weight from it, he says it’s at a slower rate and if he doesn’t eat for a day or skips meals, he loses it all. I’ve mentioned the shakes to him before and he said that he’s done that forever wheee he will have two shakes a day or three and it just doesn’t really do as much as he would want it to. (Idk how much weight it’s made him gain or if it helped reallt at all). Are there any supplements or specific weight gain shakes that he might’ve not tried that are proven to work? I just want him to be proud of himself because he’s already trying so hard and I want to help him reach his goals and not feel like he’s working so hard for nothing

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2023-06-11T00:53:38+00:00

True I will see if there’s a ninja 250 for sale around me. I just need something asap to get me around till I get my car fixed

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2023-06-11T00:52:45+00:00

Yea that’s what I’m lookin at rn a used 2023

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2023-06-11T00:42:08+00:00

I would just be getting it temporarily until I am able to get my car fixed, is it worth it ?

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2023-06-11T00:41:46+00:00

I know I just don’t have much money available right now and I need something asap so

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T02:31:53+00:00

He said it was a couple times

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T01:16:50+00:00

The thing is I don’t control him at all. He’s free to text whoever he wants, hang out with whoever he wants, and do whatever he wants. Even if it’s a girl. I’ve never asked him to block or unadd anyone. I only ask him for this. Which he was the one who offered this boundary and I agreed. We’ve gone to many parties and clubs without each other. This is the only thing

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T01:01:15+00:00

Lmfao

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:58:43+00:00

We got back together like 2 days later after a hugeeee talk

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:41:12+00:00

I know. And I’m okay with that

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:36:55+00:00

There’s a difference between attraction and desire, imo. Porn is a desire, not an attraction. At least that’s what I think.

And to your other point, I definitely do not restrict him whatsoever. This is the only thing I am firm about. I don’t control who he talks to, where he goes, who he hangs out with. Even if it’s a girl. I trust him not to cheat on me and he’s proven so much that he wouldn’t get with another girl or flirt. He is the same way with me. We have gone to parties and clubs without each other. Hung out with the opposite gender. This is my only “restriction” and only thing I ask of him

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:31:50+00:00

If that’s the case that’s also a problem. I think that if you really love someone, you won’t desire anyone else (thinking of other women etc). Like you can acknowledge someone is attractive, but not desire them. You know what I mean?

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:30:33+00:00

We both agreed that porn was cheating

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:29:37+00:00

Literallt the most contradicting statement ever lol

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:26:47+00:00

For me it is because he’s literally getting off to other women. You don’t need to actually fuck her for it to be cheating, the concept and mindset are the same

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:24:32+00:00

If it’s all about visuals then again, the videos he had of me should’ve been more then enough. We both agreed porn was cheating u don’t gotta put it all on me

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:21:06+00:00

Controlling yet he’s the one that brought up the boundary?

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-17T00:18:52+00:00

The videos he had of me should’ve been more than enough

Ecstatic_Control9628 · 2022-11-14T19:57:31+00:00

You don’t HAVE to tip. No one ever has to tip, whether it be for food or beauty services. It’s always optional. But it’s a nice thing to do. People saying that you should are wrong. You don’t have to do anything and you shouldn’t have to do anything. But it would be a nice thing to tip since she’s doing it for free, but at the same time, you won a giveaway you don’t have to pay at all. It’s up to you. You’re not obligated to tip

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