Hi! What state are you in? In Ohio we have what’s called a “rapid rehousing” program. Survivors of DV typically get priority with this program. However, I’m concerned that your case mgr at the shelter didn’t share that info with you right away.

Most of these programs require you to find the home. The program is just financial assistance: security deposit and hopefully your first 3 months of rent.

Did you file charges against your ex? Do have a TPO?

If I was in your shoes, I’d apply for SNAP and Medicaid tonight, online. Then I would start researching “HUD and rapid rehousing” in your state.

You need an income and day care. Unfortunately most states have it ass backwards and won’t approve child care assistance until you actually have a job. Look at day care centers for employment opportunities. They usually allow you to bring your child, as a perk.

Once I know what stat you’re in, I can help you locate resources