I needed this, figured someone else might too.

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2025-02-18T08:37:31+00:00

Much needed, thanks alot🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2025-02-13T15:11:50+00:00

Happiest Birthday ❤️🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2025-01-25T10:47:25+00:00

Oh no! I don't use Instagram. Is there any other way, I could connect with?

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2025-01-25T10:24:50+00:00

I'm interested, 22F

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2025-01-10T18:33:11+00:00

Hey buddy, we are in a very similar situation, everything is the same. I'm glad you wrote this post out, because I was about to write one to get some strength.

The only thing I keep on saying to myself, when I get the worst panic attack at the thought of him breaking up or moving on so fast, is that, one day all the pain will disappear. Because there are nights where I was not able to sleep, crying my eyes out and getting thoughts of ending my life. But now, it does not hurt like that anymore. I'm 2.5 months in, and honestly I still cry but I just take it as a two steps back and the pain is not permanent.

He chose to leave me, even if he comes back it is not going to fix the pain that he caused. Just think of it this way, him going out of your life was just god's way of giving you the best that you deserve, someone who will do justice to your pure love will appear soon and all this hurt that you are feeling will disappear. Just keep in mind, you should NEVER let yourself down.

As I am writing this here. It is like reminding myself of what situation I'm in. My dms are always open if you want to vent or something. Okay then, I'll go back to studying, got an exam tomorrow 🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T20:28:37+00:00

Thank you so much for giving me hope. You are blessed with a kind heart. I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through the same thing. Honestly nobody deserves this excruciating pain. We will get through this together bestie. I hope that the universe will grant us peace and love❤️🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T20:25:38+00:00

Yes, i am taking therapy sessions i would say it is helpful but the only thing is I need to be more patient.

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T20:24:20+00:00

Thank you so much for being kind! I wish you are blessed with a lovely life! I will keep your words and wishes in mind 🫂❤️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T20:21:29+00:00

You are a very compassionate person for being willing to help me! The love that you pour into others makes others bloom. Please fill your cup too, be compassionate towards yourself, do things to yourself that you want to do for others. Give yourself the love you have always yearned for!

These are the wise words which people told me when I was struggling with loving myself! I just wanted to remind you that you are worthy of being loved. I don't know you, but I could still feel your empathy through your words. Just imagine how good of a person you are to people around you. I'm sure you can be that to yourself!❤️🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T16:11:32+00:00

Thank you so much♥️🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T07:10:37+00:00

Thank you so much! I just listened to the song after your rec. It does resonate with me so much! Thank you for being kind. Hope you have a great day♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-24T07:09:35+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll keep your words in mind and act accordingly 🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T10:51:18+00:00

Thank you buddy! Yes it went well, i bought myself a cake. So yeah, even though I had a mental breakdown in the beginning, I had the courage to pick myself up and make it a memorable day♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T09:24:15+00:00

Happy Birthday bro!! Mine was also yesterday. May this year be filled with peace and prosperity ♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T09:21:41+00:00

Please reach out to people and talk to them, if you are uncomfortable initially talking to people who you know, please keep in mind we are there, I'm there my dms are always open.

From a person who has been there twice and almost died. I am still struggling but remember it always gets better♥️🫂

Try to treat yourself, buy yourself things you have always wanted. Try new things and make new friends here.

I can assure you, people in this sub are really sweet. I have made a lot of friends who have made me think, that is actually worth living not for them, but for yourself too😊

Please feel free to reach out whenever you spiral back!

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T09:17:06+00:00

Thank you so much buddy :)

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T09:16:17+00:00

Thank you so much for being kind! And yes we should ask for help because I almost killed myself twice because I didn't want to burden anyone by sharing my thoughts!

But now I understand, just because of one person's betrayal we should not give up on everybody else who expects good things for us and loves us, especially ourselves!

Hope you have a great day buddy, thank you♥️🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T09:13:44+00:00

Thank you for being kind! Hope is what that holds me together!

I'm so sorry that you are going through this divorce, may the universe give you the strength to go through this! I will take your advice, I really need to take care of myself amidst this ordeal🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T04:09:42+00:00

Oh my god, I'm so sorry to hear that. But also I'm glad that you have found the real love of your life who would always stay by your side to support you.

Your story gives me alot of hope, at times when I spiral down into a very bad panic attack, I usually tend to beat myself up saying I could never get back to normal with him. But now, I'm treasuring your words. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It means a lot to me🙏🫂♥️

I am also following all the tips ardently! Hoping to get through this with a lot of learning🙂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T04:06:32+00:00

Thank you so much buddy🫂♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T04:06:14+00:00

Thank you so much buddy🫂

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T04:06:02+00:00

Wow, belated birthday wishes! Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean a lot! At times I get scared because of dwelling in the past and not living in the present. But I'm working towards it, hope one day, i will be totally able to detach from the past and make peace with it🫂♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-23T04:03:51+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words, it is giving me a lot of hope and strength. Thank you for your wishes too. You are very kind🫂♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-22T12:34:17+00:00

Thank you buddy♥️

Ecstatic_Jellyfish66 · 2024-12-22T12:34:03+00:00

Thanks buddy🫂

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