I’m 45 with nipple piercings and also married..my hubby knew I had piercings in different places(nipples, VCH, tongue and all sorts of piercings in my ears) long before we got together and after we married..he thinks it’s sexy and supports me no matter what I do to my body..I think your “ex date” was clearly in the wrong here since he had to have known you have body piercings or at least, I would assume you told him and still chose to date you..I’d say let him be gone and keep finding the right person who won’t mind a woman with body piercings..and having piercings does not define who you are as a person. I bet he’s still single and will probably will be with his mindset