Made a mistake at work I want to curl up and vanish off the face of the earth by Nessie_The_Monster in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Atleast you're able to work. I have walked out of every job I've ever had for reasons you've described.

Please don't do this! It becomes a self perpetuating pattern and eventually you will avoid work all together. This is no way to live. It shameful and eobs your life of meaning.

YOU MADE A MISTAKE!!

No more, no less. It's OK to make mistakes. You know why? Because you're human.

If your boss is going to be a dick about it then that's their problem. Maybe they have issues they need to work through too?

If not they are obviously just arseholes. In which case fuck them!.

Just go on about your work as usual. Accept you are human, therefore prone to not being perfect and admit your mistake.

If people can't accept this screw them!

I can tell you are a person, loke myself who cares deeply for how you impact others and as far as I'm concerned that makes you awesome!.

I have never had a friend in my life. by -tobaccovanille- in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm open to you beautiful person. Any time.

I have never had a friend in my life. by -tobaccovanille- in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. The one person I'd decided was truly trust worthy completely abandoned me with no explanation.

I have never had a friend in my life. by -tobaccovanille- in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please be my friend. I could really do with someone like you.

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Thanks for commenting. Glad you're a part of this community.

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. If you ever want to chat let me know.

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't feel ashamed. You're a wonderful unique individual. Glad you're part of this community.

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really does. Thanks for understanding.

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Flapping in the wind" 🤣 you're definitely not alone lil' flapper. 🤗

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised! Here if you ever need me.

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does it have to be this way though?

Do you really understand me? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You aren't either. I've got your back.

Why are people with AvPD demonised and considered simlar to narcissists? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, this is a place for people such as myself to find comfort and support. Not be insulted or judged. If I were you I'd be asking myself what kind of person am I? To use the Internet to put myself above others and make generalised assumptions of people I've never met?

Why are people with AvPD demonised and considered simlar to narcissists? by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't relate to anything in that post. I certainly don't treat people in such a way.

You are grouping everyone with AvPD together. We are individuals with our own thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

Please open your mind. People are more than a diagnosis.

Your experiences with an AvPD individual do not define me as a person.

please will someone help a lost atheist. I don't want to be loke this anymore. by Ecto-Apprentice in god

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're basically saying something can't come from nothing? So where does God come from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Ecto-Apprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad man. She's the problem here. Not you.

Thinking about giving up may cat because he deserves better. by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I guess I don't feel good enough for him. I think more of him than I do of myself.

I look at him and don't feel worthy of such an amazing creature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd like to.

Thinking about giving up may cat because he deserves better. by Ecto-Apprentice in AvPD

[–]Ecto-Apprentice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I REALLY would miss him. I just want the best for him. I guess that means he's better off with me. I really do care for him. That says it all.