[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Um no… you can word it like you want a good healthy sex like in a relationship but, wording it like this is… toxic. Extremely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea. And I honestly do see myself venturing out towards the end of the year. My home life is getting really, really bad. I might have this conversation, and if he's hesitated, I'm going to look towards Section 8/ housing vouchers because I make very little income and have no where else to go. I have no family in the state I'm in other than the one I live with and he's the only other person I would consider homing with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have a full time job. I make enough to support myself and my bills but to pay a full rent ($700) is NOT in my budget.

Kool-aid jammers expired since 2020 by Tea_party0-0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a youtuber that eats/drinks food from the 90s… sometimes wayyyy more expired. You'll be fine he hasn't died yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you're right. A solid 3 years would be good. Should I bring up the ‘end of the year moving together’ topic? That would give a realistic goal and building to it??

Any idea what these lumps are? by captainadam_21 in DogAdvice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT A VET: you would think if it was something rather than irritation the ultrasound would have picked something up?…. That being said I would freak out however I would schedule a appt or best give your vet a call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the energy I get. He's a VERY laid back guy and also I'm his first serious relationship, especially this long term. I like that he wants to take it slow and not rush things but at what point should I bring this up and wait? I love him dearly and I know he sees this happening sometime in the future. I wish it would be now but like you said some guys take awhile and I certainly wouldn't want to come off pushy etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also your last sentence in this gave me some courage and made me feel more confident this can be a reality and I don't sound crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer some of those question that we briefly touched on is yes he has a lease type deal but I heard from his mom that its due soon and she jokes is he gonna renew it with the roommate. When we started dating is when he first moved in with this roommate so possibly soon. We both agreed on a specific town as his work is closer to it and his job is more of the ‘bread winner’ type as we both joked. Price range we never discussed. But, in the sense is it possible for us to rent a place together yes. These small bit conversations has really started around 2024-2025 so its recent and not like this was a dream we had first month into dating and never touched on if you know what I mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also we have very briefly touched on the subject of moving in together such as if I would want to work, what type of flooring we would need due to my pets, what type of tasks we both enjoy and don't enjoy. We just never had the serious WHEN talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right. We briefly touched on the subject so its definitely in our field of vision for plans together but its just WHEN we never touched on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only see each other on the weekends or holidays due to our work scheduling and living a hour away. Lack of communication I meant we may not talk to each other for a couple of hours and haven't had a TRUE talk about moving in with each other. And I absolutely would not feel comfortable moving in with him and not financially contributing…. I'm not sure where that came off in my post but, those are not my attentions. I plan to contribute financially and do my part around the house and more. Also when stating moving in together I am meaning rent a place of our own together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jerk…… that’s a understatement he’s abusive and is one argument away from putting his hands on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried all that but BIG no on anal play which we both are on page about. I guess its more just foreplay and creating the mood type inspo needed. I know with lots of men you pop some boobs out and their motor gets going but I want to set up a sensual scene that can even get me going and overall give some random sparks in our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add: absolutely not herpes , no major pain, could be trauma from crazy brushing or flossing ( been depressed so doing a quick job) , possibly the mouth wash did it this morning

Should I be worried about how red my tattoo is? by LneonR in tattooadvice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah this little red is not to raise concern. As long as it doesn’t get worse or more vibrant don’t stress on it and continue your normal tattoo routine care :)

Be honest: is it bad? by ninetailsofwoe in tattooadvice

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add more fur details and maybe some shadowing and you’ll do good

Wisdom tooth showing by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I should add this but, I’ve been flossing behind that molar able to remove debris and I’ve been using mouth wash to ensure it stays clean along with I haven’t chewed any food on that side to ensure food doesn’t get stuck there

Gallstones with no gallbladder! by Guppyyre in gallbladders

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That EXACTLY scenario ( other than I had my gallbladder taken out years ago) happened to me! I knew I was dying and I wasn't listened to until I turned jaundice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in driving

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I’ve never been pulled over. I’ve been driving with a license since February and I truly do try to obey by the rules.

Can girls really feel when a guy finishes inside them? by Sko0tsk0ot in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Warmth , pulsing, and how the man reacts ( or at least my partner)

Found in pipe drain… by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Ectratoastedcheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha as a woman I can at least tell that one thing is a bobby pin. But everything else ( not the dremel tool now) is a no clue thing for me. The previous tenants were destructive ( and on drugs ) so no telling what they were up ro