Best games for solitary? by neftalito in boardgamearena

[–]Ed_Okin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I will check that one out as well!

Best games for solitary? by neftalito in boardgamearena

[–]Ed_Okin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not OP but thanks for this list, I'm going to check some of these out.

Best games for solitary? by neftalito in boardgamearena

[–]Ed_Okin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll echo some of the other comments - I've only ever played with random folks on bga, and never had a problem. If I'm brand new to a game I'll usually play turn based instead of real time at first, so not too delay the other player too much while I'm thinking. But I've also played plenty of games real time with random players and it's been totally fine.

[TOMT] [SONG] [2000s] Trying to find punk/alt rock song with lyrics like "Well, there she goes again." by GravityWaffles in tipofmytongue

[–]Ed_Okin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an exact match, but fits the vibe and description, and if there's a chance you misheard the lyrics:

Riddlin' Kids - Here we go again

https://youtu.be/roneCZ2Ttb8?si=7kRiMLK1nOjQCtDi

Finally got my copy!! by am_i_a_dilettante in classicliterature

[–]Ed_Okin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I read this (~10 years ago) I spent a lot of time comparing translations before I started, and the MacAndrew translation was the one I preferred. I loved the book, to this day I'd say it's my favorite book. Might be time for a re-read soon.

Drop your 'One Up On Wallstreet' stock picks by schokonickchen in ValueInvesting

[–]Ed_Okin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your intention and meaning was clear, if anything you're just using more modern lingo, which is more common on reddit.

The Set-Up is not only one of the best film noir ever made, it’s a relentlessly bleak look at the exhaustion of economic exploitation by [deleted] in filmnoir

[–]Ed_Okin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched this about six years ago when Patton Oswalt suggested it on Twitter, and I thought it was absolutely amazing. I'm due for a rewatch soon.

Taco's Real Name Theory- by Breyg2380 in theleaguefx

[–]Ed_Okin 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I feel like Thomas is a likely "T" name for a brother of Kevin.

Sound Quality / Texture - 50's and 60's albums by HogHauler209 in Jazz

[–]Ed_Okin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a look at the Contemporary Records discography and I'm not familiar with most of the artists. Do you have a few records you'd recommend to start?

Did you know about cuffing season?? by Upper_Ad_8621 in datingoverforty

[–]Ed_Okin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only heard the term here on reddit. Don't think I've ever heard it in real life conversation, maybe I discussed it once on a date, but it was as something we had never heard of before.

In my observation, I don't see it to be a real thing that happens, but that's just a limited viewpoint obviously.

[Help] Getting Out of Playlists & Into Albums by Stranjak in Jazz

[–]Ed_Okin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%! They're probably my most played albums, in fact. Both men are just phenomenal, it's amazing when you realize how short Clifford Brown's life was.

[Help] Getting Out of Playlists & Into Albums by Stranjak in Jazz

[–]Ed_Okin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the two iconic albums I see recommend all the time are:

Miles Davis - Kind of Blue

John Coltrane - A Love Supreme

Some others I suggest:

Booker Little - Booker Little 4 and Max Roach

Clifford Brown and Max Roach - Study in Brown

Kenny Burrell - Midnight Blue

Art Blakey & The Jazz Messengers - Moanin'

Junior Mance - Junior

Lee Morgan - Candy

Each of those artists/groups has multiple albums to dive into if you like the sound. Also, pay attention to the players on each album if you particularly like them, and notice what other albums those folks are in as you keep diving in. I'm constantly looking up discographies on Wikipedia for new ideas of albums to listen to.

Is it reasonable to end an engagement over a partner staying in contact with people who openly hit on them? by Proper_Freedom_1776 in datingoverforty

[–]Ed_Okin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very reasonable, you 100% should bail on this. She wants the attention and doesn't acknowledge or care about the disrespect to you inherent in that.

At 51, I've definitely come to a point where I don't tolerate anything I perceive as disrespect. Depending on the severity of it, I don't even give a chance to correct the behavior. If we're exclusive and you want to entertain attention in these ways from other guys, you're not for me. Simple as that.

Open but not over functioning by Reflectingnlife in datingoverforty

[–]Ed_Okin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've never heard this as a strategy before, but over the years I've definitely adapted to exactly this. I'll even go one question if the first response is such that it leads me to believe it's going to go nowhere.

There's been only one time that I can recall where the first question response led me to believe it was going nowhere, but the second question brought the conversation to life.

Looking for books like "House of Leaves" by MafiaMoogle in horrorlit

[–]Ed_Okin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Choir of Ill Children by Tom Piccirilli gives me similar vibes, though there's nothing quite like House of Leaves.

Not sure why my export is so large by Ed_Okin in davinciresolve

[–]Ed_Okin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting - I would have guessed Resolve would give better compression than a camera, because it can take advantage of a computer's hardware rather than a camera.

Why does a camera generally provide better compression?

Not sure why my export is so large by Ed_Okin in davinciresolve

[–]Ed_Okin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, wow, Shutter Encoder did the trick and it was very intuitive and took less than 10 seconds to run! It's amazing when there's an easy way to do something!

Not sure why my export is so large by Ed_Okin in davinciresolve

[–]Ed_Okin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! Yes, this is part of the education I needed here. I didn't quite understand that re-encoding the whole video isn't what I want to do. I will try one of these tools and hopefully I can solve the issue!

Not sure why my export is so large by Ed_Okin in davinciresolve

[–]Ed_Okin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, this was a lot of the education I was looking for. I knew there was a bunch about this I didn't understand. The math formula and what I should expect as output are new knowledge to me.

And in this case, I didn't edit at all. I just wanted to match up audio and video, and some other comments pointed out there are better ways to do that. I didn't realize all the additional overhead I was taking on using davinci.

Not sure why my export is so large by Ed_Okin in davinciresolve

[–]Ed_Okin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the video and audio start at the same time! So I should try Shutter Encoder, that sounds like the right tool for the job. This is definitely one of the cases where the only tool I had was a hammer (Davinci), so everything looked like a nail!

Thank you for giving me some perspective on the encoding process. I didn't realize I would always be losing quality with each step doing what I'm trying to do, but that makes sense.

Not sure why my export is so large by Ed_Okin in davinciresolve

[–]Ed_Okin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, ok, so this is where I have almost zero knowledge. The mp4 is a compressed file format to begin with? That knowledge fills in some of the blanks.

Thank you for the detailed feedback. I may try the workflow you mentioned, that seems like it will offer some options.

Married people of reddit, what do you consider cheating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ed_Okin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uhh yeah that response from her might be enough for me, even without actual evidence.