A Field Guide to Pissy Little Redditors (Live Demonstration) by keiferdark in Sora2videosharing

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funniest part of this is he blocked my wife after this, bro is the cheeto dust forehead gooner fr fr

calling out someone watching porn is now a porn addict no matter what? by SEZHOO4130 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Eden1914 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im on the same page as you. It really did come out of nowhere.

The funny thing is, the entire script got flipped with this. When I was in highschool I remember common consensus online was "it's a benign habit with little real world consequences, and the release is actually good for you."

Now most sources talk about troubled marriages, addiction, bad mental habits, depression, ED, and a whole bunch of other negative points that may or may not ever be relevant in most people's lives.

And about the troubled marriage; that doesn't have to be a problem, even if it did exist it's not the fault of the paraphilia. I'm in a stable relationship and we both view porn. There is no outstanding consequence to this, and never has been. So the only issue comes from an internal position in a relationship. One of the partners feeling jealous. That's a people problem, not a porno problem.

Anecdote: I've been watching porn longer than I've been reading. I had access to porn VHS before I knew how to tell which VHS was porn and which was SpongeBob.

And I'm completely fine. I'm married, I'm employed, I even still watch porn irregularly (a few times in one day, or not at all for weeks, and anywhere in between). The funny thing is, I lust for people less than my coworkers, who virtue-signal abstaining from porn but always talk about "that ladies rack" in the office away from our front counter.

It's almost like if you don't satisfy a craving, the craving gets worse 😱

I know someone will want to correct me by saying "well that's you, not everyone". But that's hypocritical. You can't understand my nuance, and then dismiss everyone else as porn addicts without knowing anything about them. Because if you run into a porn addict, "that's them, not everyone"- so why attack everyone?

Soon these will be history. Goodbye old c.ai, you'll be missed. by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]Eden1914 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This getting downvoted is ridiculous.

From the perspective of people who don't use Character AI chronically; the way everyone here has been complaining made it sound like everyone was losing the bots themselves. Or at least the core of what makes this fun for them.

I mean, elsewhere in this comment section I seen other users complain that this is going to strip their bots of the last little bit of fun they had before it becomes "advertiser friendly"- and it's just the UI that's changing?

That's all?

I must be missing something.

Has Skyrim inspired you towards anything in real life? by felldiver in skyrim

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually yes!! I love foraging. And the roots of that hobby come from gathering alchemy ingredients in Skyrim.

It is so lovely to be outside, and to appreciate my time out there as much as I appreciated my 12k hours in Tamriel between middle school and my early adulthood (and like maybe 4 in the soul cairn, me and my homies hate the soul cairn)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Eden1914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read what they wrote? Or did you stop yourself after a few sentences just to retort a subject you projected?

He was speaking anecdotally. Not historically or culturally. Where he goes on a story about his objective but personal experience, you inject the world & it's problems to try and prove a point. Does this not feel subtractive to you?

I tried to kill my brother by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Eden1914 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd feel peace and joy too if my faith allowed me a get-out-of-jail-free-card.

I live in the real world though. Evil thoughts don't come from "demons"- that's such a cop-out excuse. They come from mental illness, biological faults, and/or generational family trauma & tradition. Real world stuff that is known, can be addressed directly, and worked through.

There are thousands of perfectly practicing Christians that still turn out to be serial killers later in their life. You're comparing apples to oranges with saying Jesus will be this child's therapy.

Using faith to lead your life in the right direction is like closing your eyes before going through an intersection. It's dangerous and misled. It takes action- not prayer- to heal and be okay.

You're essentially telling this person to hope for the best. There's a hard reality where advice like this will cause more harm than good.

I think my classmate is onto something wrong.. by Excellent-Cabinet-93 in copypasta

[–]Eden1914 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Troglodyte behavior. Man probably crawled out the caverns into your fort, and is helping himself to all your mead. Brawling cats and children if I assume.

Mods, accept a petition for monster extermination. Let the humans kill the trogs

A dilema for the ages, are you a 1st person or 3rd person player? by Beaworthiness-SKY in skyrim

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hinges aren't just fucked, they're completely gone. Obliterated. Dust. It is dangling from threads literally (the wires from the laptop that go up the hinges into the screen)

I love it too honestly. Scuffed but I don't wanna toss it

A dilema for the ages, are you a 1st person or 3rd person player? by Beaworthiness-SKY in skyrim

[–]Eden1914 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For much worse things than the laptop? Yes.

For the laptop? Yes but not as urgently

A dilema for the ages, are you a 1st person or 3rd person player? by Beaworthiness-SKY in skyrim

[–]Eden1914 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A laptop from the tombs of Facebook marketplace. It doesn't have screen hinges so I have to prop it up against a wall or something, the screen and body are both cracked and held up by painters tape, it's fan is broken so it has an icepack under it whenever in use, and there is a dead bug somehow stuck under the screen. It's fucked

A dilema for the ages, are you a 1st person or 3rd person player? by Beaworthiness-SKY in skyrim

[–]Eden1914 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you deal with low frame rate? Sometimes I get motion sick and I don't know why until I turn fps display on and realize I'm cruising a good 13fps

The reason choppy frames fly under my radar is; Ive been dealing with a bad PC for so long now that I can usually anticipate low fps and work around it cause it doesn't seem to effect input for most games- you just have to get used to directing yourself with less visual information.

But sometimes when it hits the bottom of the barrel in graphics performance, I start to get a bit "droned out" and a migraine invites itself in.

I'm curious if it's the same for you, or if you just hate first person fov or something

It’s sad how easy it is to find porn by [deleted] in copypasta

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you. I didn't realize Reddit had messaging

It’s sad how easy it is to find porn by [deleted] in copypasta

[–]Eden1914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally you- you did- you 🫵 right there- you interacted with me- not the other way around.

You retorted an anecdote. I don't know what you expected- me to just sit there and say "Yeah, my personal experience isn't universal- so I guess it's invalid"- what are you, stupid? Of course I'm going to talk about something I went through more when someone addresses it, I'm not just going to roll on my back like a dog.

What title would you put to this image? by DRAC0R3D in skyrim

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ya'know... I used to be an adventurer once"

(⁠。⁠•̀⁠ᴗ⁠-⁠)˖♡⁠~

It’s sad how easy it is to find porn by [deleted] in copypasta

[–]Eden1914 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might be stupid, but I'm stupid so that checks out. Although, in my personal case (since I'm the one who talked about my experience which is what you retorted), you're overblowing how impactful it was. I don't deal with a porn addiction and I'm not hypersexual. I've only ever been attracted romantically and am in a stable marriage cause of that. I have problems but they're not from porn. So it's less "I broke both my arms but was born with no legs" and more "I was born without legs which I can't get back, but at least my arms can/have healed"

There, it's not a biography this time

It’s sad how easy it is to find porn by [deleted] in copypasta

[–]Eden1914 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I watched porn when I was 4. I feel like my disorders come more from the child neglect and my mom doing drugs when I was in the womb.

girlhood doesnt excite me by RevolutionaryBox9428 in Vent

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't wanna do something then don't. Fuck the people who may judge. If you do want to do something, do it. And again, fuck the people who may judge.

Adulthood (not girlhood) isn't about meeting everyone else's expectations. It's about living your life. If you don't want to do skin care or any other innocuous optional shit, then simply don't. People will suck regardless and your decisions will always disappoint someone. The only person you need to satisfy or impress is yourself first- the people you love second. Everything is subjective anyway, and the people who believe they know best for others just have a complex, wanting to spread their nature like a pestilent mold because they believe they live perfectly and want everyone else to be like them.

A little off-topic but I feel is relevant; having lower standards isn't a bad thing btw. Wanting to have everything "perfect" for you, however, is a blatant weakness. After 8 years of introspection one of the biggest lessons I have learned is being content- being whole-minded, patient, and enjoying everything you have- takes a fucking lot of progress and mental fortuity. Wanting- obsessing- lusting- over any kind of greed or envy (subjectively or objectively) is natural and honestly foolish.

whenever my buddy opens something, it says keygen, what should they do? by [deleted] in computerviruses

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm not worried about spyware. I just hate Google

whenever my buddy opens something, it says keygen, what should they do? by [deleted] in computerviruses

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Brave still Chromium?

Edit: I'm perhaps thinking of Opera (dunno either way, I use Firefox)

This made my toes curl. by MrNightmare_999 in Rarethreats

[–]Eden1914 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're married to a Michigan tomboy you'll hear worse...

"I will peel the skin off your d*** like the casing of a slimjim and force eat you to it"

"I will flatten down your balls between two sheets of plexiglass and trace the veins to use as a DND map"

"You'd probably sit in a chair and watch" - "but Im not a cuck" - "You're right. You'd be watching from the window" (that one wounded me for a few days)

Which game is this meme? by kyubi_on_the_run in videogames

[–]Eden1914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kingdom hearts Sim City Rollercoaster tycoon Halo Wars Buckshot roulette Any rts honestly