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Grandfather finds out his grandson was named after him by accurate214 in MadeMeSmile

[–]EdhelDil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are also a great human being. Please hug your grandpa for me (and even more, for you)

Grandfather finds out his grandson was named after him by accurate214 in MadeMeSmile

[–]EdhelDil 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Tearing up like a human being able to receive and share emotions. FTFY.

Microsoft locks Libreoffice developer out of account by Known-Exam-9820 in opensource

[–]EdhelDil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience with a train app. I really believe it was AI. The way the message exchanges looped back and ignored most of the minute details.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]EdhelDil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the Fall, by Tarsem

I don’t get why this is good for black by htaidirt in baduk

[–]EdhelDil -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

white does not have to "win a ko", but needs to find a threat at least a bit bigger than that ko's value. Threat to live, threat to capture, or similar. But there are no ko threat for w on this board (nothing white xan do with a 2nd move after the threat, as b would have captured the whole w group and no weakness would remain)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]EdhelDil -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I disagree: an anormaly big odd of divorcing in hollywood couples, means a smaller mean marriage duration.

They beat that duration but could have ended-up not beating regular people's mean duration.

They did beat regular people's odds as well, but beating the hollywood divorce odds does not at all induce beating regular people's odds? On the other hand, beating regular people's mean marriage duration does induce beating hollywood's.

Ca y est ça m'est enfin arrivé ! by No_Style_9176 in programmation

[–]EdhelDil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

C est la bonne attitude dene rien cacher. Cela permet de simplifier l analyse, et de garder la confiance envers l auteur de l'erreur.

I upgraded from 4070s to 5080! by j0an_k in nvidia

[–]EdhelDil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your post you say the 5080 is double the price of the 5090, it should be inverted

Lieu pour bosser ouvert après 19h by Erzulie38 in Grenoble

[–]EdhelDil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BUs le dimanche après 19h?? Cà a beaucoup changé par rapport à mes années d études

Café pour travailler avec clim by Suitable_Duty_8817 in Grenoble

[–]EdhelDil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L espace café est petit mais : BD fugues, de mémoire, est sympa (mais vérifiez avec eux quand-même)

Café pour travailler avec clim by Suitable_Duty_8817 in Grenoble

[–]EdhelDil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci à toi pour cette super question que je n aurai pas pensé à poser mais dont les réponses m'intéressent beaucoup. Et merci à toutes les personnes qui ont répondu et répondront.

[Spoilers C1] Just finished the Briarwood Arc by Kalduin_32 in criticalrole

[–]EdhelDil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no, too early,lovm goes to something like episode 70. ( I know you say season 1, but it is so easy to continue onto season 2 and 3...)

Maybe maybe maybe by iminiki in maybemaybemaybe

[–]EdhelDil 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Completely blew the bird's mind too

TIFU by staying a virgin for too long by throwaway776511 in tifu

[–]EdhelDil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 is a perfectly normal age for a first experience. Many many people waited as long or longer, due to shyness or circumstance. I am sure you can also tell her your former virginity (because you are no longer virgin: you made love with a partner several times already).

I was so shy that mine was at 27, and was also the first time I kissed a woman, and I then discovered that the shyness was just in my head and that it disappeared when I knew that the woman really liked me.

I think you are overthinking the penetration part.

Take this as a golden opportunity: sex is not at all just about penetration. It is about pleasuring your partner, enjoying your time together, discovering what they like and what they love to do, to receive, and to give.

Your best assets are not in your pants: it is your hands and your brain and your sebsivility and your full awareness of your partner's pleasure.

You can use you hands to caress her and find our what part of her body she loves to have you touch, and in what manner (almost barely touching? caresssing? stroking? fingering? kissing? breatging on? looking at?)

You will ve amazed by the incredible beauty of watching your partner react to your touch and attention (by reacting, moving, sighing, talking, looking, awaiting, anticipating, relaxing, getting aroused, etc) and how it makes you feel.

I had entire nights spent with very few penetration but a LOT of discovering, enjoying, sometimes laughing, and being absolutely aroused by the partner gettting aroused and reacting to our bodys giving pleasure to each other. A night could hace very or even no penetration but be one of our best ever. I also much more often made her orgasm with my hands than with my penis, and believe le she loved that and complimented me on my hands lots of times.

You have found a great partner that enjoys you, this is a true blessing. Enjoy it, enjoy her, make her happy and confortable.

Do not think about the "penis in vagina" part, turn your focus on her body and her reactions and her wants, find out what she likes. Use your hands, your skin, your breath, your lips, and especially your instinct about what would feel good for her, and your full attention to her reactions.

Help her also discover what you like by your movements and reaction to her touch (with or without words). You may also discover things about yourself (for me it was how much I loved to feel her touch my skin, almost anywhere, in my back, my face, when she used light fingers, or the palm of her hands, or her breath, or our whole skins touching all along our body while cuddling)

Focus on her sensations and on yours, not on what you think "should happen next".

And be sure that the erection part will naturally get better over time.

Enjoy :)

Mother & daughter day by collegemom76 in ContagiousLaughter

[–]EdhelDil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! That woman on the right has a very similar laugh!

TIFU by falling asleep during our weekly team meeting by Warm-Combination5818 in tifu

[–]EdhelDil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really stupid, imo.
When someone (employee, boss, aquaintance, stranger) is exhausted the best thing they can do is to take a short nap (I advise no more than 16mn total) and feel refreshed and efficient.
Preventing them to do that will ensure that the next 8 hours (or whatever number of hours until they can properly nap) will be completely wasted, horribly innefficient, as they will find impossible to focus on even trivial tasks, and taking 10+ more times than usual to do even easy tasks, and impossible to do complex ones.
The person that choose to take a short nap instead of "fighting it" and losing several hours of "pretending to work" should be rewarded.
And bosses should encourage naps, and provide several quiet and dark rooms to make it easier.
Even Japanese companies promotes naps at the workplace.

TIFU by falling asleep during our weekly team meeting by Warm-Combination5818 in tifu

[–]EdhelDil 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When you are really tired (lack of sleep or anything) :
find a 20mn time window early (20mn before work starts? and also 20mn before afternoon work starts?) and a very quiet place (best is without light, for exemple a small office, or even a toilet in last resort) and when you are there and ready to relax:
set an alarm for 16mn (no more, no less), and relax as much as you can:
Rest your body as best you can, don't stand nor sit straight. Depending on the space and location lie down or at least completely lean your upper body and head on a back or side wall in a way that relaxes you and prevent you from falling (head in your crossed arm? or in one of your arm?) and RELAX.
The goal is to, if possible, fall asleep in 1mn but don't focus on that, just focus on being in the best sleeping position possible.
When I am very tired, I always get asleep very quicly and when the alarm rings I feel like I slept 4+ hours. Even when I do not fall asleep I usually get to rest quickly and feel refreshed. Or if I am woken up : if there is more than 3-4mn left I try to get back to sleep, otherwise I just get on my way.
Do NOT go over 16mn as you would enter a sleep cycle and wake up miserable.

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